Is it normal if im happier drunk than sober?

I know its bad but is it normal? The first time i drank it didnt hit me so i was like awww boooo i guess life will suck no matter what. Then i smoked for the first time and i had my doubts it was gonna do anything cause when i drank it didnt do anything so i was like whatever. But it hit me and it was the happiest time of my life! It was like what ive always wanted out of life which was laughing and doing anything i wanted and I was accepted, no one cared what I did nor did I care what they thought . It was perfect! I only smoke every now and then so thats why i say "drunk" cause i prefer drinking. So after that smoking session, i drank at this one party thinking it wasnt gonna hit me but it did! So i was like yayyy omg its weird it hit me after i smoked which was two completely different days. But when i drank, i just felt accepted again, lose, and happy. Its not that i feel accepted cause i drank. Its that when im drunk, i feel like i can do anything without thinking too much about it and everything is free-spirited. When i go to a party now, i want alcohol because its more fun drunk and thats not good cause you should be able to have fun sober as yourself but im too stiff if i dont drink at parties and feel like the weirdo so ill drink and i get lose and everything is fun. I told myself the next time at a party, i wont drink, if i do itll be like a margarita or mojito nothing hardcore and see if i can still have fun.

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  • Echoes

    That's the point of drinking.

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  • honestjoe

    Be careful, that's how it started for me and I never slowed down and I turned into an alcoholic. Alcoholism is a brutal thing! It can kill you. Once I reached a certain point, I started having problems caused directly from drinking. That effect you are talking about? How great it makes you feel? Well, once you get to a certain point that effect slowly stops working and you need more and more to try and get that good feeling. Eventually it stops making you feel good altogether, it has the opposite effect and it depresses you. Alcohol is actually a depressant, believe it or not. Once it starts making you have problems it gets worse and worse, never better. Once you become an alcoholic you can never drink normally again. It's like this: Once a cucumber becomes a pickle it can never be cucumber again, never. I am an alcoholic of the hopeless variety, and alcohol has destroyed ever part of my life. Alcohol is an equal opportunity destroyer. Be careful! Remember if you start having problems you can get help from Alcoholics Anonymous, They helped save my life. Take care and Good luck my friend

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  • RockyRockenWog

    Too much will turn you into an asshole.

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  • wigsplitz

    Totally normal but dangerous!! It can easily become a bad habit and creep into other areas of your life....the way you describe it, it seems like you think you need alcohol to be fun but that's not true-have confidence in yourself!! Having been a bartender for a long time, I can say that the only thing alcohol really succeeds in is making almost anyone look like a complete fool. That's not to say you can't drink sometimes but don't ever think you"need" to drink!!

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  • phoenix_paradox

    Alcoholic 99% complete... Be carefull...

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  • Corruption

    Yes, you are an alcoholic get help.

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  • Kemper420

    not normal.
    grab a fat sac, and light up a fattty.

    way better solution

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  • koifish

    Normal. Thats why a lot of people drink.

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  • whodat

    You really don't sound like your even old enough to drink

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