Is it normal if i want a relationship only based on affection?

So ive never been in a real relationship and thats because of countless reasons and one of them that comes off the top of my head is cause I know ill just end up hurting the guy so i rather not take a "thing" too seriously. It saves the both of us A LOT of trouble. Part of why i think ill hurt him is cause I love affection and hell probably like me more emotionally. Ive admitted that yah its a very important component if I ever do get in a relationship. But i know that a successful relationship consists more than attraction of course but for some reason im just more of an affection person than a conversation one. So my thing is I usually seek someone to have a fling with who is obviously on the same page so neither of us are playing each other. Why a fling? Well because I dont just get with someone based on looks I can NEVER do that. There has to be some kinds of emotional feelings which would make it more special and the way i express them is through affection. So I usually like to have someone for a period of time who can give me that affection but yet we still have some type of emotional attachment. But lately, I kinda want something more and cause Im used to being sensual and not very much emotional I have a feeling my first relationship will be very complicated in the beginning however i wouldnt mind if he agreed to have affection as our #1 priority. It would be like what I usually have except were an official item. I just want to have fun and Im not a multiple men girl (slut) if thats what it seems like. I just wanna be with someone, have fun, affection, strings attached but flexible. Just to imagine that perfect relationship makes me so excited. Im not here to settle down and be wifed up.