Is it normal if i usually like the person everyone hates?

Honestly I see through people and can point out the bad ones. Yet the bad ones always seem to be liked by everybody in example, the ones who follow trends, have bad manners, act like they're "bad b*tches", fake, rude, cocky, just like everyone else, etc. It really frustrates me because the bad ones are the likable ones now? I don't get it. And if I even try to out them on blast, I'll get attacked of course. Now the one that everyone attacks is misunderstood like crazy and I'm the only one, well as a part of the minority, who sees that. It sucks cause then I look like a crazy person for going with the supposed bad one. Ahh. For example, this girl supposedly is looked down on because everyone thinks she shows off when clearly there are people who do the same and its accepted. Like why her? Is it her tone or gestures? I don't get it. I realized it really depends on the person. If two people say the same thing, one will be looked at differently in a bad way when they meant the same crap. Why!? So freakin annoying. Its not fair how society lives in terms of acceptance but its another thing to accept the completely wrong people! If you're going to have this rule of acceptance do it right society. So I always tend to like and see through the bad one in the group.
People tend to only consider the surface of the person such as what they say or do, and they have no idea the intentions behind them. Thats why don't judge based on words of a stereotype. And just because the majority agrees with one thing, doesn't mean its accurate. Remember, the majority today are f*cken stupid so don't always follow them. And whats funny is a therapist just told one of the ones against the girl that she needs to stop being mean to her because she doesn't see anything that wrong with the girl meaning the therapist agreed with me. Sometimes people don't even realize what they just said and it comes off in the wrong way so it was just an oops. I wish people can see right through people like I can.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    Thank you!!!! Finally someone who understands how I feel!

    I don't understand why people don't recognize those that are worth recognizing. Another thing that bothers me, is when people look for validation that who they like is 'awesome'! I mean, if you like someone and your friends keep knocking them,it doesn't matter. It shouldn't matter what they think. If you like that person, you like them. Why ask for others opinions? Forget what the arrogant people can't see.

    You are of a very rare group in this world. You're special, because you see people for who they really are. Not many people in this world are like that. Don't ever change that. Don't give that gift up for anything.

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  • DandyElfman

    Everyone needs some love even the outcasts! Yeah its normal. Maybe you are a bleeding heart.

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  • Shrunk

    I'm like that too. Whenever I hear the majority/popular crowd saying how crazy, weird and a bad guy someone is, that makes me very interested to meet this bad guy, and it usually turns out I can relate to them the most, or at least have interesting conversations. I got tired of trying to make friends with the ''extroverts'', and whenever I see someone alone or not quite as fashionable, beautiful, etc. I always go to them. This might actually be kind of shallow, but it's because I know they are less likely to reject me, but it's also because I know how it feels to be left out. I especially sympathise to those who are ''asocial'' (not against socializing civilly as in anti-social, but dislike or fear it) because I'm like that too, and I know how lonely it can get, when no one listens to your true thoughts and feelings, dismisses them as crazy or stupid because they are not popularly accepted. I always listen to all sides of any argument, usually find the less popular to be more interesting...

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Yeah i'm like this.

    I hate all those fake poser types.

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  • LostSoul22

    I feel the same way. I always ended up liking the person everyone else hates. I could careless about all of their trends an shit they do. A lot of people need one good wake up slap honestly. This day in age monkey-see-monkey-do.
    Very few people do their own thing now and just follow what everyone else does. Society needs to change big time be for it's to late. Sadly it would take a LOT to change the way things are.

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