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I lost my virginity to a random I met in a club and now I have a boyfriend and his my first.. Do I tell him that I lost it to a random? Or just let him think I'm still a virgin? He knows his my first boyfriend.
Just be honest. Think logically about what your doing, your lying to your boyfriend about something very important and special. When yous do have sex, he'll think its your first time, that's special for a guy, but you know it won't be.
Just be honest with him, don't lie to your other half, don't you think he deserves the truth?
Also, try and swap positions with him, would you like to be lied to about the same thing?
I hope you sollve this, and I hope I helped you to enlightenment
If you can't be honest with him how do you expect the relationship to last? Would you like it if he lied to you about something important such as that?
I'd say be honest with him because a big lie isn't exactly the best way to start off a relationship.
Trust me be honest because the truth might come out later down the line. If he can't accept your past then his not worth it
Be honest, if the random guy gave you an std then you have got to let him know so that after you guys do have sex, he will know why he has an std. Good luck !
You would have been an average high schooler at the catholic school I went to growing up
People seem to be voting on this based on morals, instead of whether it's common or not. Lying about virginity is extremely common. But like everyone else is saying, lying is the foundation for a doomed relationship.
Its up to you. I have had women lie about this but I dont value it as that important. What is important to me is if they have STDs or not. If I am there first is not much of a concern but most of the people I know are virgins. If he instantly dumps you since he only wants a virgin he was an jerk anyways and you don't need him.
Just tell him. It was foolish of me but I was drunk and a guy showed me a little attention at a club. I was always the good girl so I wanted to try something new. Afterwards, we went to his car. I realized that I didn't want to lose my virginity to him. He tried to get me to have sex with him and almost succeeded but instinct kicked in and I said no. I felt bad for leading him on so I gave him my first BJ instead. Later, I met the current love of my life. I told him the situation when we were in the friends soon to be lovers stage and he understood. Sometimes, he still teases me about it but I think he was glad that I didn't lie to him. If I never told him the story and I pretended that I was "squeaky clean" he wouldn't be able to trust me like he does now and I wouldn't be able to deal with lying to my best friend/first boyfriend.
Me too.. Im always the good girl and just wanted to try something new and different, so I just went ahead with everything.
If you haven't already told any of your gfs and are sure you will NEVER reveal the truth then I think you should keep your mouth shut!
Your man will treat you like the good girl you are, and after a while your virginity will never be mentioned again. Anyhow, that fling in the club doesn't really count as a relationship - so forget about it.
Good luck whatever you decide.
Personally I'd say it's none of his business, you don't have to share every single detail of your life with someone. If you were to marry him, what would you talk about 30 years from now?