Is it normal if i'm still affectionate with someone i don't like?

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I am extremely, crazily weak when it comes to affection. I always knew I loved it but recently, ever since Ive been "seeing" this guy (he thinks we are but were not in my perspective), I realized that I'm also weak with affection. I told him from the beginning that I don't want to lead him on and I just see him as a buddy but he won't quit; he keeps taking me out and I like going out with him but just as friends. As soon as Im getting ready to make sure he's clearly aware of where we stand, he kisses me and I can't help but go along with it. Before, I was glad he wasn't so aggressive in terms of kissing and affection but the last time we went out, he showed me more and I was like "hmm, maybe this can work?" ugh but it can't! I'm not into him like that, that is until he makes love to me (we havent done a lot just make out and hands near the privates but that's as far as I want to go with him, no more!) So I don't know what to do, keep him aside as a cuddle-buddy as opposed to a sex-buddy or just make it official that nothing is going to happen with us, just friends.

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  • BlueAlice
    10 years ago

    You're selfish! Just end it and he'll find someone who's actually worth beign emotional and/or intimate with

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  • Jweezee
    12 years ago

    Sounds like your treating this dude like an emotional ragdoll. You can't tell him your not into him and make out with him. You're satisfying your desire for affection at the expense of his emtional well being

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