Is it normal if i'm picky with whom i will date?

82% Normal
9 Comments

I've never had a date in my life. But then again I'm only 18. But I wonder if it is because I am very picky? To be specific, I will not date any guy who does drugs, smoke, drink alcohol too much, is too horny, and a lot of other things. I mean is it that bad?? I already know I don't want to "sleep around" because I don't believe dating someone with that behavior and I don't want to waste my time with people I know I don't have a future with.

Voting Results
82% Normal
Based on 61 votes (50 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 9 )
  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    11 years ago

    It's normal. I want a girl who's Indian, pretty, who likes sex, not religious, hourglass shape, among other things.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Yeah thats like me. I wonder if its because I'm so choosy too - which is the case.

    But you know what...
    you're not just going out with people just for the sake of it - not just settling with any ol' body...

    you're not being hoe :)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • bittersweet21
    12 years ago

    Sounds like you have morals...that's not a bad thing, but you might have better luck finding that type of guy at church! haha

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • sandinmyambergerbuns
    12 years ago

    i am the same way. I rarely date just because i know what i want and refuse to settle. Its so annoying though when everyone is always trying to set you with guys and giving out your number to them. Its like people think because you are single you are miserable which just simply isnt true. I enjoy being single and not have to worry about someone else all the time.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • soft789
    13 years ago

    Dont worry. If you are allone, very lonesome, dont forget, you are not allone, your pickles are always with you.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • WheatCrunches
    14 years ago

    Im a 18 and male, I've never been on a date either, and I am very picky also. I dont think it's particularly irregular, you just know what you want, nor do you like any bad qualities.

    You're normal :]

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    That is okay. While at the tax office, I have had the opportunity to "advance" my relationship quality by going with this new girl or that new girl but all in all, I am just happy with what I have.

    People don't realise but it is okay to be alone, just use that time to work on yourself. Eventually, the "better" person will be there but at least you didn't get a "Ms. Right Now" pregnant.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • Jen118584
      14 years ago

      Just because someone is female and works in your office doesn't mean she wants to be your sperm receptacle. All women are to you is sex objects. It's gross.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    May be you should look at what you want instead of just don't want.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0