Is it normal if i like that no one loves or thinks like me?

I like it how no one loves or thinks like me because or else, I'd be so fucked. You know like that saying "Youll be disappointed if you think everyone loves like you do." So trueeee. I love really deep and I just expect my bf to show me the way I show him I love him but unfortunately he doesn't. He says hes crazy about me but his actions don't add up. It has messed with me but now that I realize everyone shows love in a different way so not necessarily like I do, its kind of a relief to not expect so much anymore and accept thats how he shows love.

With the thinking part, I'll admit the way I think of people in particular might not be in everyone's best interest so again, knowing that not everyone thinks like me is a relief lol. So going back to my bf, knowing that he probably doesn't look down on me like I have looked down at others is a relief. It's all in my head and because Ive gotten accustomed to thinking this way (but plan to change it) I think this is the only way of possibly thinking. But its not and thank god.

So I like the fact that not everyone loves and thinks like me cause like I said, I think I'd be fucked. Its refreshing to know that everyone is different including my bf and I don't have to expect much and trust that whatever he does or in general any one does, means just as much as what I do means to me.