Is it normal if i hate my mates? :s

Compleatly normal. You may be stuck in the "whats normal" group of friends. You really need to think about changing your friend line. I mean I had that issue in highschool. Then i broke out of it, lost popularity but gained some really awesome friends down the road out of highschool that in totall didn't mean i needed my old friends.

I also find it hard to hang out with guys because their main area of conversation is car, sports, or tits and ass related. So I basically ditched them for better people. Life is short, hang out with people you actually like and get along with.

No, it actually isn't!

yep lol if uv moved around alot then its more normal