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i have a bestfriend but apparently she likes the same guy that i like too . she shouldn't be feeling that right ? i mean i like him first so you gotta back off , and why on earth , there's thousands of people in the face of the world , she chose mine ? that is just mean right ? other than that , she's okay .
Well, why should she back off? Maybe she didn't know. And even if she did, maybe she's thinking, "She should back off!" too.
Just because there are thousands of other guys doesn't mean that she shouldn't like a person you like. You guys might have the same taste or what not since you've obviously got some similarities... I'm guessing? Best friends are supposed to be people with common things with each-other.
You can hate her if you want since that's your all personality. But, I'd personally rather do the backing off than trying to ruin a friend-ship that could last longer.
That's kind of a ridiculous reason to start hating someone. Anyone! Especially your best friend.
I can see how that can be frustrating especially if she knew if you liked him. Try not to get to mad at her. Come at it from her angle: She sees a cute guy and a feeling inside her(which we usually cannot control) tells her that she likes him. Trust me, she's not out to get you, it's just a little accident. No one wants to loose a best friend over something like that.