Is it normal if i had a crush on a guy, never had a crush on a before

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There's this guy, very nice to be around, very smart well dressed and good looking (i think for a guy),really good in sports and really friendly.
So this thing happend we became friends and now i can't stop thinking about him.
Its like i feel butterflies in my tummy when im with him.
I get all excited and out of words.
So would i be gay or bisexual or just i dont know weird or am i a closeted gay. P.s I've always dated girls before never a guy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    It could just be the person you're attracted to rather than the gender he belongs to. I think everyone at some point will have some sort of weird feelings for someone of the same gender or has the potential to.

    I remember in college someone felt the same about me, and they weren't homosexual.

    It happens. Think about if you would like to be in a relationship with them in all aspects, sexual, romantic, and so on, then base how you should act on the conclusion of those thoughts.
    If you want to "be with him", then make sure he feels the same, otherwise it'll all be pointless.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Well i guess I am not gay.
      Coz ive Never had sexual thoughts about him.
      That's a relief.
      But what if i do in the future.
      Im confused!!!!

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago

        I think the term may be "homoromantic", I am not too sure. I think it's when you have romantic feelings for someone of the same gender but no sexual attraction to them.

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  • RainbowDischarge
    9 years ago

    Is that whats called a "bromance"?

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    9 years ago

    I think you are what you see yourself as, and if you aren't sure then that's cool too as a lot of people are unsure

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  • Diver2
    9 years ago

    The best thing you can do is to suck him off and swallow his cum.

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  • donotmockme
    9 years ago

    Lol "butterflies in my tummy" nice, very nice. You sure are old enough to use this website.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Iam 21

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  • mccain
    9 years ago

    if you like girls, then you are definately not gay. as far as bisexual, i think you would have to have these thoughts about more than 1 guy to be classified as bisexual

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Well i dont know about other guys.
      Never really gave a thought about that until this guy came along so he's the only one i guess. There might have been, but no one stood out as much as this guy. So it's really confusing.

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