Is it normal if i give my ex girlfriend a birthday card.

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We were really good friends and we were together for about 3 years. We broke up on mutual terms and we decided to stay friends even though it gets a bit weird sometimes.

I just wanna know if it's normal because i don't wanna seem like i'm trying to stalk her. :) hehe.

-JP

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Based on 56 votes (45 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Birthday cards are for people you care about and she's a person you care about. Very normal.

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  • college
    10 years ago

    While I think it's very difficult to just be friends with someone you've been romantic with for 3 years, I don't think it's wrong to acknowledge her birthday. I'd just send her a funny card, or something that can't be misconstrued as flirty/romantic.

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  • [email protected]
    10 years ago

    I'd just send the bit ch a box of SHIT instead.

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  • Tommythecat.
    10 years ago

    At least you can. I really want to speak to my ex's, I've got very real apologies I need to make before I can move forward. I don't want to leave things the way they are.

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  • Shugaboom
    10 years ago

    The fact you both broke up, doesn't mean you're now enemies. You can continue sharing, and a simple birthday card doesn't mean you are or you will stalk her. Give it to her without any fear!

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  • Sensate
    10 years ago

    It's about as weird as giving a friend a birthday card...which isnt weird

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  • April=)
    10 years ago

    dude, ur messed up. No one and i mean NO ONE gives ther ex anything

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