Is it normal if i feel this way about my bf and our relationship?

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I'm happy with my boyfriend because he is like my best friend. However, we are so different that I wish we weren't the same. Let me explain. I've done things and want to do things that he wouldn't do. I would like a boyfriend who kind of is with me on the same boat but even more balsy? You see, my bf and I can be naive which is where the whole "opposites attract is a good thing" because if me and my bf are both like this, we or, I, will never get anywhere. I need someone who has the same instincts as I do only he's more confident. My bf right now, he's the same as me, but because he doesn't have the same instincts, I'm by myself. I have a couple of guys Ive been involved with some way, and I sometimes think maybe theyre the ones I need to be with, not my bf. In a way, my bf is long term while these other guys are short-term. There's nothing wrong w that because I am young and don't want to settle. Then break up with him? Then I think when I am happy with him. I feel like its a case of "I think I know what I want but I dont" and Ill find out that when I break up with him and Im not happy anymore. Im not sure what I want. If this were to be a perfect world, Id tell my bf hey Imma go have a fling tonight and hed be like okay careful and thats it. But its not is it.

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  • MssMurd3r
    11 years ago

    You wrote this so poorly that it was hard to understand. I think that you are immature and shouldn't be in a relationship.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Omg this wasn't meant to be written as an essay for a professor, ya it might be hard to understand so my bad but thats because I was just running my mouth since it was all in the moment.

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      • iEatZombies_
        11 years ago

        It clearly states when you submit your story to be as grammatically correct as you can. You're asking -us- a favor, so be polite and write your fellow professors an essay.

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  • ruchi
    11 years ago

    How old are you? I think ur probably to young to be dealing annd thinking about this

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  • Imsupernormal
    11 years ago

    What the fuck did you even write? Your grammar is atrocious.

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  • harrocakes
    11 years ago

    Who the hell could understand this?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      just read my response above

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  • cutegalsly
    11 years ago

    reallyyy...it was 4 sure hard to understand bt at some point i got it...dont worry you'll find a guy that u want someday

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I know it was and I already said why so my bad just some people take it all seriously. Thanks for at least trying and understanding

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  • rachels1234
    11 years ago

    you need to be taught a lesson if i was ur partner you would not be getting away with any of that i think they should all run from you and u sould be singel till u learn not to be a player pepole have feeling and evrthing u know how would u like it if he was this way with u i know if my fanciee was to do that it would be the last thing he done

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    learn grammar, THEN date...

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    So you have a boyfriend, but you involved with two other short term guys? Tell me I misunderstood! Otherwise that just means you suck as a person!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      No in the past, I hate cheaters which is why I'm trying to make the right decision here, its either stay w my bf or break up so I can satisfy my desire to be with those other guys, one or the other

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      • Captain_Kegstand
        11 years ago

        Good, I was going to think less of you! Try paragraphs next time, it is hard to keep your post strait lolz.

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago

    So, what you're saying is you want to figure out what you want, but you aren't even considering other peoples feelings.
    I can say without hesitation that I never felt like crossing these lines. You aren't ready for a commited relationship. If he is, you're holding him back. All in all, do him a favor- let him go.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    You sound kind of immature. I think you should take a break and maybe get back together in a year or something if you even still care about each other.I don't know why young people would rather put so much time into some relationship or "finding the right guy" than into having fun with your friends (including myself and my friends when we were younger). I blame the movies.

    Besides, if you really loved this guy you wouldn't be thinking like that about your exes.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Ya he's my first boyfriend, as a younger person I decided for myself to not get in relationships after watching the drama and how worthless it is since we're young. However, after living the single life for a while now, the feel to settle down was catching up to me and my bf came at the right time. I can be with my bf longer but there are those moments where you wanna be single and that's whats happening.

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