Is it normal if i feel my lover and i are like siblings?

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I've been with this guy for a few months now, nothing exclusive, kind of like friends w benefits but we are an item to other people and loyal to each other. I haven't been with or slept with anybody except him neither has he so its kind of in between exclusive and friends w benefits. As we are getting to know each other, its crazy how we have so much in common and little things we do that are the same. We dress sort of the same way, we like the same music, etc. but then we do or say things at the same time like if it was choreographed or something lol it can be awkward but in the end we just laugh about it. I feel like we're twins. I've never felt this way about someone I liked. I feel like we're brother and sister yet we're lovers. I feel like I found my lost brother lol. Is this normal?

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  • GreyWulfen
    10 years ago

    Plot twist: You are siblings.

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  • cocoapeaches
    9 years ago

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and quite often I snap into big sister mode and mess with him. He hates it, but I just can't help it -- its so fun to fuck with him and he makes it easy when he complains about it.

    Damn, I miss my little brother.

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  • Shnaz
    10 years ago

    He is your brother and yes, it's incest.

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  • asasasa
    10 years ago

    That's adorable. I wish you two stay with each other forever.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      :) me too

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  • Visitor
    10 years ago

    Most people would be uncomfortable to admit they thought of their lover as a sibling. But is normal given that the woman often likes to say "I am not your mamma!" and "you are not my dad" and things like that and vice versa to her husband. But it is never said in a positive light. I think you are brave to admit that because sibling bond can be very balanced of good and bad and does not necessarily mean you are incestuous. Unless he looks like your brother.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    10 years ago

    wishin I were the same. yallre lucky

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