Is it normal if i feel more sad when animals die than when people do?

Hey guys, so, my great aunt died 2 years ago, and I was kinda close with her, but the thing is, I didn't even shed a tear or feel very down (I was sad of course). But a month ago my dog died and I cried for 2 days. The same happens even with unknown people and animals. I always feel sadder for the animal, even if I know the person was a really nice person. With movies too, everytime an animal dies I cry but when a human does I don't even care. I just watched John Wick and the part where they kill the dog just made me so sad and angry that I wanted to kill Reek. So, back to question, is it normal or not?

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  • chole

    Humans are shitty creatures that embody destruction, they're thieves and whores due their fucked up systems.
    Animals live purely and honestly, they don't bound themselves with self-righteous "morals."

    I don't understand why this is questioned. Yes, it must be normal, to have sympathy for the loss of something that belongs to this world, than the loss of something that plagues this earth.

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    • Shesyoursisterdude!

      I'm sorry but my great aunt didn't plague this earth asshole.

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      • chole

        Don't be silly. Over population, over consumption, increased industrial and agricultural pollution, depletion of resources, all these and much more are caused by humans whether directly or indirectly.

        You and I, your great aunt and so forth, are humans.

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    • howaminotmyself

      Animals live purely because we don't hold them to human standards. Ever see that video of the bird of prey snatching a goat off the cliffside and dropping it? Humans can't get away with that.

      Not all humans are shitty. And some animals are dicks.

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      • chole

        To be frank, just as westoptic said, animals do not disrupt the ecosystem. They make sure it functions. Which means without them it would cease to function, then life would cease to exist.

        What is worse is that humans, good or bad, contribute to the disruption of the ecosystem through deforestation, pollution of watersheds, removal of wetlands, yada yada.

        So whether an animal is a dick, or a human is not shitty, they each have a very different value to the ecosystem.

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        • howaminotmyself

          Okay, but that wasnt what the OP was asking. He felt bad for animal deaths and you decided to go on a "humans suck" tirade. Their value to the eco system is not what's up for debate here...well, now it is. I am just tired of people pooping in humanity as if they are not a part of it and it is fundamentally a bad thing.

          These are different issues. One is social, one is environmental. Sure, they overlap, but ....nevermind. if you don't get it, no amount of explaining will help.

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          • chole

            I suppose so but what I was doing was simply painting a greater picture than the question itself.

            With the loss of an animal, I feel it is a shame.
            With the loss of a human, not so.
            Although that does not apply when it comes to the loss of a personality I was fond of, ofcourse I would feel sad.

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            • howaminotmyself

              Funny, to me it sounded like you narrowed it.

              Today i found a dead squirrel. It made me sad. I like squirrels. But last week when a homeless man was found dead, that made me equally sad, if not more. It took a week to discover the body. His name was Dan. Rest in peace walking Dan. I'm sorry society spit you out to the fringe. Maybe you knew the squirrel, perhaps you shared a meal with squirrel. And now you can share meals in the afterlife too.

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  • squirrelgirl

    In my favorite Disney movie, Tarzan, I always cry at the part where Kala and Kerchak's biological child gets killed by Sabor. (They're gorillas, FYI) But in the same movie I don't cry at the part where Tarzan's parents are killed.

    Also, I'm a fan of Madoka Magica and have watched the series twice. I never cry at any of the parts where certain characters die. But the other day I was watching The Fruit of Grisaia and all of a sudden in episode 4, the kitten who belonged to one of the characters got hit by a car and died. I bawled for at least an hour.

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  • RoseIsabella

    This might sound like a cop out, but I think it depends on who the person and or animal is. I also think I cry more about a tiny baby or a small child being deathly ill or dying than an adult human just like I would cry about an animal. I think it's a thing about innocence and purity for me.

    I do think that it also is that grief and mourning are different experiences everyone. When my maternal grandfather died everyone was crying and very sad, people came for the funeral from as far as Texas, Florida and South America. I felt I had to be strong for my mother and my paternal grandmother who although she'd already been a widow for nearly 10 years was good friends with my mother's father. I really didn't start to feel sad until about two weeks later, and then I was calling in sick for work nearly every other day.

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  • westoptic

    Normal. Animals have a more beneficial purpose to this world and are less destruction overall than human beings are. Also, I don't feel as bad for humans because I understand them on a human-to-human level, like I can understand their pain and loss. But animals, you can only empathize with. You have no idea how badly they feel pain and loss and how heavily things affect them and that to me is so incredibly sad.

    People put themselves on a pedestal above all other beings on this earth but when it comes down to it if you remove a human being from an ecosystem it flourishes. If you remove a mosquito from an ecosystem, it collapses. Really puts into perspective how "special" humans really are in the grand scheme of everything.

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  • dog_as_hell

    yes normal i am the exact same way

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  • sugartits

    normal

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