Is it normal if i feel conservative in a relationship?

So Im an outgoing person in a relationship with someone I love but Im not sure how to balance my personality and my relationship. Being long-distance doesn't really help, either. I mean my bf has an idea how outgoing I am because he met me at a college party and he saw all the shenanigans which is probably what attracted him at first then eventually we got closer and became serious. Now that we're living apart, sometimes I want to go out and have fun but of course consider my boundaries in respect for my bf. However, having an outgoing personality means sometimes that fun side of me creeps up and I just wanna go all out but I feel like it looks like I'm single and not girlfriend material. I really don't mean like slutty or whoring around, thats not the fun I'm talking about. But lets just say dancing perhaps maybe provocatively or drinking a lot or even talking a lot, thats where I feel like Im already disrespecting my relationship. So I rather just keep it cool and casual. I feel good because I know Im respecting my bf and would never want to hurt him but at the same time, I feel kind of bummed out like I could be having a lot of fun but I know that that fun might lead to some trouble. So like I said, long-distance doesn't help so I'll be telling myself wheres my bf? Not anywhere around here so I literally feel single and that doesn't help hold back from having fun.