Is it normal if i fear that i might be a transexual?

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Hai, I'm a young teenager who got a huuuuge messed up problem. Im a boy but for some reason I envy girls, their better in every damn way than we are! Their bodies are better and so are their brains. The biggest part I envy is that their bodies enjoy sex more than men do, deny it if you want but deep inside you know its true, they get multiple orgasms and all. I wish I could be a girl and feel their pleasure, its soo unfair. What should I do, I feel ashamed of myself, I don't want to even think about that I might be a transexual. I dont know who I should speak to, If I tell a therapist they'll think im some creepo, I also find males sexy and I feel so... "low", I dont want to dominate in bed, I want to be dominated. I want to be a life giver, I want to be pregnant. Pleaaase tell me what the hell is going on with my mind. Is it normal to think like this?

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  • Pisslan616
    12 years ago

    There are a lot of bad things that go with being a girl also.
    .period pains
    .boob pains
    .child birth pains

    Its not all multiple orgasms or so I have been told.

    personal the part I like best about being a boy is the fact that I can aim my stream of piss.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    yeah I don't think trying to suppress your feelings would be such a good idea. they'll eventually resurface and be a lot harder to deal with.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    You're not a transgender if you haven't had a sex change. You'd be called a genderqueer, which is normal. If you want to get a sex change, I suggest you do whatever makes you happy. Good luck.

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    • anonymouz1
      12 years ago

      Meh, if I get a sex change I'll look like some freak. What would be the point to do a sex change if I'll never experience what I'd want to? Also, Jack... you got a good idea there, I never thought about talking to a therapist/psychologist before meeting them, thanks alot. I keep wondering everynight if I should just ignore these feelings and keep it as a dark secret for the rest of my life. I only fear that these feelings might become a bigger problem later on in life when im older...

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  • honeybeee
    12 years ago

    noo multiple orgasms isn't real!

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  • JackTheGummibear
    12 years ago

    I know a lot of transsexuals (normal kids like me, not grown up men who like to dress as women), and there's nothing to be ashamed of. Those professionals have heard a lot weirder stories, don't worry. Actually a lot of kids have this 'problem', while only a few percent of them are transgender.
    You should be able to find a special therapist or psychologist for this matter on the Internet. Maybe you can call him/her first to have a little talk with them, and when you like it you can go there for a real consult.
    Success! :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    since it is a dead end worry (pregnancy etc) i think you should seek professional help with this.

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    • anonymouz1
      12 years ago

      But I don't wanna talk to anyone about it, even if its a doctor or therapist. It's way too embarrassing.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        but its common, they would give you tecniques to cope or even help you think clearer, you could decide about things, theres a question needs answering, if u are determined to go it alone, ask yr dreams "what do i need to know, show me, help me"
        btw a truthful cry from the heart is not embaressing

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        • anonymouz1
          12 years ago

          Sigh, Well.... You're right. But I still feel a bit.. you know? the feeling that the therapist might think im weird or messed up. It have happened before, I remember back at high school when I told the school-therapist about a problem and after that he thought I was some creep. I really feel uncomfortable... could you give me any tip or advice of how to find a trustfull/loyal specialist. Like, a highly educated one or one with empathy or what? please help.

          Thanks in advance.

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  • aduusw
    12 years ago

    There are many transexuals...

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