Is it normal if i fantasize like this at first sight of an interest?

Sometimes when I see a cute guy I feel this chemistry just by laying my eyes on him. So since I dont get to him again because it was randomly, I start picturing him and I as a couple or what couldve been due to the chemistry I felt when I saw him. Its like okay since he won't be in my life in person Ill just have him in my head as the guy I believe or want him to be. I just start making up these stories mentally as if its really happening but unfortunately its not. This is currently happening to me but in the past when it does, either it eventually fades or we meet again and hes definitely the guy in my head which Im usually not surprised about since he was a made up character afterall, but at least Id know for sure if hes right or not. I just really hope I find out with this one soon.

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  • MissDethstar

    Sadly, the same thing exactly happened to me. I had a ''love on first sight'' when i saw him walking in the street. He was a stranger, but i was somehow in love with him and i pictured him in my head as the perfect guy. He was a rocker, when he played guitar outside i used to sit far away and look at him all night. I met him 3-4 years after by mere coincidence, i was still in love and i dated him....I never had a worst time in my life, he was a complete liar, a mean person with no true feelings for me but i couldn't let him go.
    Anyway, he cannot be the guy in your head.
    You will most likely get hurt if you keep this idea. It's fun to dream about it but when it's time to find out it's complete different story.

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  • lulu369

    i do that all the time i make up stories plots in my head about guys that i think are cute is it normal though???

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  • flutterhigh

    Ugh...

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  • Oops, meant to say "he's definitely NOT the guy in my head

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