Is it normal if i cant stop thinking about him even though i hate him?

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First off I'm 17. Around a year ago I was in a 10 month relationship. It was very rocky and very unstable but we had very strong feelings and sgared a lot of special moments. After a few on and off weejs we finally had a horrible break-up. Now, almost a year later, I still talk to him but I can't stand him. I think of him and all the things he did to me and I almost feel sick. Now comes the problem; I miss him like crazy 80% of the time even if I feel that way. I still feel like it was my fault he acted that way. I feel alone all the time and I wish he would want me. I thinks its more of a a feeling of wondering if he is uch a bad guy and I loved him anyway why wouldnt he love me back? because i sacrificed so much and I still got hurt. but i wish he would regret it and want me back... Is it normal? I dont think so. But what can I do to change the way I feel?

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  • thebuddah
    12 years ago

    It's not your fault that he treated you badly so don't justify what he did just because you love him. I've been there and you're still young, you will get over it. Later on you'll be glad that he didn't want you because at least you're forced to move on. I know it might seem lie you're never gonna get over this guy but you will. Go to sheknows.com for some help. It's a great site.

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