Is it normal if i am getting insecure/jealous for the first time?

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I am a taurus and based on that I am supposedly jealous and possessive. There is a difference between those two, take it from someone who actually has one of those qualities. I am possessive but I don't get jealous. My EX would get really mad and annoyed of the fact that I never got jealous. He would try to make me sometimes and it was funny seeing him struggle. Now that I think about it, I never even got possessive of him. Hmm...
Right now tho, I am messing around with this guy but its not just messing around, we're kind of loyal to each other. But the point is, he is cute inside and out. He is a likable person so since he's attractive, pple especially girls are gonna eventually find out what a nice guy he is. As for me, I like him SO much that I am prepared to get heart broken. You can say I am kind of over-protective of whatever we have. I'm starting to feel that jealousy/insecurity that is supposedly in me already. But I feel like its a combo of having strong feelings for him plus him being an attractive and likable guy. It sucks liking someone really attractive so much :/ I don't like feeling this way. I am used to feeling secure especially of me and my man. Should I end it with him? because as much as I like him and wanna be with him officially and how he likes me too and is loyal, I don't wanna go through this in the future and possibly be even worse. I'll be sad tho for a while if I end it...I him sooo much :/

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  • Shelbs
    10 years ago

    You developed feelings for him so it's normal to get jealous of other women when you aren't officially with him. Find out if he feels the same way about you. If he does, then I don't see why the two of you can't be together. If you're always afraid of love then you will never find it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      But I thought love was not jealousy? With my ex, I loved him where I felt so secure with him. But then one of the reasons why I never got jealous was cause I was losing interest in him. So ya i guess love is a little jealousy.

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  • asasasa
    10 years ago

    you've found someone worth being protective of why end it?
    there's no guarantee that you feel secure in every relationship. it's about time you found this guy

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Why do you say its about time I found THIS guy? cause ya I haven't felt this way in sucha long time not even with my ex and whenever I witnessed jealous couples like my friends or just randoms, I always questioned why so jealous if you love him? I never knew how it felt until now. I don't like the feeling but I really do like him. So he's worth it?

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      • peterr
        10 years ago

        Why don't you cut the crap and hook up with me. I will suck you off until your fucking head caves in.

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      • asasasa
        10 years ago

        Like you've said you have not felt this way in a long time now you are willing to break down that wall for someone who you truly like. i agree with @Shelbs and yes i think he is worth it.

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