Is it normal if i’ve never been asked out?

I’m turning 24 later this year & I haven’t been asked out, crushed on or pursued romantically. Does this mean that I’m ugly to men (theoretically)?

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Based on 9 votes (8 yes)
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Comments ( 9 )
  • RoseIsabella

    You don't know for sure that you have never been crushed on, OP.

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  • bigbudchonga

    Rose and Mammal are right; you could have just had shy guys like you and who never got round to making a move

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  • bbrown95

    No, it doesn't mean you're ugly. Also, the other comments are right, you can't be sure you've never been crushed on, because many people will be too afraid to admit it out of fear of rejection and keep it to themselves, especially at a young age.

    daizy is right as well. Just because someone gets asked out a lot doesn't necessarily make them more attractive than someone who doesn't. Being asked out has more to do with putting yourself out there, being approachable, etc.

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  • daizy

    That was never a standard of beauty and it will never be

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  • Mammal-lover

    Just cause someone doesnf say hey I want u doesnt mean they ain't crushing

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  • palehorse

    Have you tried asking out someone instead of waiting for people to pursue you?

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    • dietweeaboo666

      Nope. I’ve been taught that if a guy doesn’t approach first or show signs then he isn’t interested at all.

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      • Tommythecaty

        Nah that’s often not the case with both guys and girls

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  • jethro

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You might be fantastic to look at but you might also be a complete dick with a crappy personality. That is a turn off to even ugly fat guys.

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