Is it normal if he likes me because of this?

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IS it normal or even right that this guy along with others in the past have liked me because I'm so stress free? That sounds like duhh but the thing is I have a fantasy mindset and part of it is because I was brought up well in my family, I have support from my parents, I have the resources, etc. Its kind of like I don't have the reality that the majority has and when I do, I don't take it too seriously Im just like everything will turn out fine.Sometimes when a disappointment does occur, I am not as stressed about it as expected such as a car accident, losing a job, etc. Almost like I'm heartless or something lol. I'm just too laid back. So sometimes I think its a flaw like I should be stressed and more determined I guess? But the thing is I am determined I just don't stress out so much like others do. And guys seem to like that about me when I would think they want me to be more on the go or something. The way I see it is just balancing each other out.

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  • squirrelgirl
    10 years ago

    Your upbringing sounds a lot like mine (well-off family, supportive parents, fantasy-prone personality) but unlike you, I am ALWAYS stressed out or upset about something. I'm jealous of you!

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  • college
    10 years ago

    I actually think this is a great quality to have. Some stress can be good for you, as it can act as a motivator to take action in order to reduce the stress. However, lasting stress can have life threatening effects. I'm more of a laid back person myself, so I understand what you're saying, and I think it's great as long as the determination is still there.

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  • ScooterNyne
    10 years ago

    I'm the same way. I almost NEVER get mad and when shit happens I think about it for a second and then ultimately just say, "eh, whatever, could be worse". I think people like that just have a level head and enjoy life more. They have more fun.

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  • amidone?
    10 years ago

    Its normal enough that you needn't worry about not worrying enough :P

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    I always take a relaxing dump if I feel the stress starting.
    *turbo turds his shorts

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