Is it normal i would rather get raped than kissed

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Is it normal that I'm just so scared of intimacy and affection that I'd honestly rather just get raped by strangers than having to make out with them? The point isn't really the person, whoever I've been with in the past- my exes, friends with benefits, one night stands, I always felt so shy and awkward especially having to kiss them or be close to their face and look them in the eyes- I just can't be intimate with someone. I can deal with ten men fucking me as long as I'm not facing them, but having to kiss and make out with my lover, no, it's just too embarrassing I don't know why

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  • Nikclaire
    4 years ago

    Normal to think this if you have never actually been raped, but trust me it's not something anyone wants.

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  • ellnell
    4 years ago

    That makes no sense. Also seek help for your intimacy issues. Sounds like insecurity to me i've had the same problem. It's embarrassing because you're insecure about being vulnerable which you cannot form any deep connections without being so you'll probably always be lonley unless you work through it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      How did you overcome your insecurities :(

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  • TerriAngel
    4 years ago

    Nik nailed it.
    Just slow your roll.
    Your ex's, F.W.B., one nighters.
    Why are you doing this if you are not wanting this outcome?
    Chill, meet someone.
    date,
    when its right.
    You will want to kiss them.
    you will want to look into their eyes.
    you'll know in one look where they're at in their core.
    Right now youre just being a piece of chuck roast.
    Pounded, basted, baked, and dropped.

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Must not be that attracted to them if you don't wanna kiss.

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  • Aethylfritha
    4 years ago

    Nope

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