Is it normal i went soft on my girlfriend?

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I am 18 and my ex girlfriend is 18 both virgins.My ex girlfriend and I were about to have sex for the first time I was exited at first but as soon as I put my condom on I got nervous and on top of it her little brother was home she told him to go to his room I felt bad about that and scared he was gonna come out of his room luckily he stayed downstairs. then when I was on top of her I tried adjusting myself but she wouldn't let me and tried telling me no your gonna put it in me now and I felt uncomfortable and went soft so she tried getting me hard then finally I told her I couldn't do it and I was sorry.so about a week later she dumped me because of it.so is it normal I got so stressed out about having sex?

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  • Ramit10
    11 years ago

    Dont worry about it. Not many guys will admit but I will. When my ex a I had sex we were both virgins and we were both nervous. It happens and we went back to messing around till I got hard and we did it. If she dumped you over that then she is a bitch. Forget her.

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    • Larrytio
      4 years ago

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  • Saycheese
    11 years ago

    Yes and there was no reason for her to dump you for that. Shows how much she really cared about you. You'll find someone better for sure... Unless there really were other things going on.

    And also come on it was your first time and just do something about your confidence if you worry about it that much. Don't worry too much about it next time and like I said before if your girlfriend really cares she won't leave for that.

    I'm a virgin but I'm going to make sure not to be too nervous my first time. Come on if he loves me he shouldn't care too much... the first times normally are the worst and most sloppy anyways.

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    • shuggy-chan
      11 years ago

      I'll be gentle

      >8}

      side note to OP

      bro it was the stess, everything you said was really distracting and stressful for someone trying it for the first time. dont worry to muc about it. my first time was just as shitty, and i tried it one more time and it was just as bad. some people just need diffrent things in sex. personally i think i need more of an emotional investment and or attraction to the person first, cause mine were more like booty call hook ups and i didnt enjoy them.

      P.S. seems like she was a bitch anyway

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      I know seriously what a bitch she is . She should not have dumped you becuase you got scarred it was your first time guys have a right to get nervoues as much as a women does . If she was any kind of women she would have stayed with you . She ovbiously did not care about you enough if she left becuase you did not have her . CHeese is right.

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