Is it normal i was talking to this guy then he just completely...

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So me and this guy were talking and we both liked each other and we were really good friends for like 4 months. Then he asked me to go to the movies with him so I said yeah, and he payed for me. Then after the movie was over he immediately called his mom which I thought was kinda weird he didn't wanna hang out or anything for a little while. So then when his mom gets there he leaves me there!!! But thru he texted me and said sorry. Anyways so the next day I texted him hey and he never answered. A week went by and he never texted me once. I thought the movies went good, so I didn't know why. So a week later I texted him hey again and he said hey so I started a Congo and he randomly just said ttyl gotta go. And never ever talked to me again!!! It's been 1 month and he haven't contacted me at all! Then my friend asked him why and he said we have nothing in common... Mean while we have everything in common. Is that weird?? HELP!!

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago | pl

    He's not into you. Get it? That's what the fuck is going on.

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    • fxfc4cj9
      12 years ago

      < exactly
      stop stalking him, you girls do exactly the same

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    so he left you at the theatre and doesn't text you back until you send him lots of messages ... only to say "later"

    That's "guy talk" for "I'm no longer interested in you"

    Sometimes that's life. the one you want doesn't want you.
    and believe me... you can't force him to want you by hounding him with constant messages.

    so what do you do? cry a little if you want and then walk away

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  • Wrest216
    12 years ago

    He probably saw a "flaw" in you that he cant get over for some reason. Dont take it personal, he is too much of a chicken to tell you, or to risk getting in a fight over it. Besides, you deserve somebody who likes your differences, and does not think that they are flaws.

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    Either, he's a momma's boy or he's just not into you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Not worth it. Go find the guy who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated, like a princess. :)

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  • blaster
    12 years ago

    The thing is you both have to feel that way. Don't degrade yourself by wasting more texting on him, sorry but he ain't interested and he knew straight after the movies.
    Do yaself a favor and move on , plenty of fish in the sea.

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    The reason is obvious. He cut a hole in the popcorn bucket and held it in his lap the entire movie and you didnt eat a single kernel. Do you know how difficult it is to maintain a stiffy submerged in liquid hot butter? Its not easy thats for damn sure. No wonder you have nothing in common.

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  • sassafrassi
    12 years ago

    It doesn't matter the reason he's kind of an @$$. If he didn't like the date he shouldn't have left you there and if he did but something happened, like he embarrassed himself, then he shouldn't have left you there.

    Something must have happened on the date...or didn't happen. Can you think of anything?

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  • ready2rumble
    12 years ago

    That's weird! Why did he ask you out and then be like that? he is def not into you.. Did you do something weird at the movies?

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce
    12 years ago

    he realized that even in a darkened movie theater your face is still too busted to drop a nut in. you probably talk during the movie too which would piss anybody off. or like Faceless said give the penis attention next time tease

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  • OhGodWhy
    12 years ago

    it may be his parents or something bad is going on in his family or something. maybe feel sorry for him.

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  • Royo101
    12 years ago

    Because we were good friends and we talked everyday and we liked all the same things

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    How would you know if you have everything in common? Obviously you don't if he acts this way.

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  • Royo101
    12 years ago

    I didn't do anything I know of.. Lol

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    • thinkingaboutit
      12 years ago

      Uh. he was probably trying to hookup with you? you didn't take the bait, which probably irked him. I mean its a good thing you guys didn't hook up, bc of the way hes treating you after the fact. Guys are nut jobs in HS.

      Dont forget that you guys are teens, and don't really make great decisions. He probably doesnt realize, or care, how you feel about his actions.

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  • Sorry,username-is-taken.
    12 years ago

    Got to be something your not telling us. What the hell did you do! Don't you see you scared the fuck outta that guy!

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  • noone348
    12 years ago

    was the movie twilight ? if it was that's whats wrong dear...

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  • UnwrittenPoet94
    12 years ago

    To put it bluntly : On to the next one. Don't waste your time feeling bad about it because something's bothering him, whether its about you or not (which in this situation it probably is - sorry). Find somebody that'll actually stick with you.

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  • Dot123
    12 years ago

    Yeah, the best advice is to just get over him or you could try and make him jealous that sometimes works. But the best way is just to find other man that likes you for you.

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  • NoraBaker
    12 years ago

    If it had been me in his place I can only think of one reason to disappear like that. If my date ate like a pig, meaning chewed loudly, I'd have called my mom before the movie even ended. :/

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  • dinz
    12 years ago

    Oh well - there are other plenty of fishes in the sea.

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