Is it normal i want to wear my girlfriend's panties?

So I'm a straight guy and don't and had never felt any attraction to other dudes but after a year and a half of relationship with my girlfriend I suddenly started fantasizing about wearing her panties, shortly after I was wearing them when I was at her place exclusively. A while later we went out and bought me some lingerie panties. Sometimes when going shopping or going for a walk with her, I wear them. The reason is that I feel sexy in them and it makes me aroused so I usually perform better at sex that night (I suspect she allows me to wear them strictly because of that)... Is this normal?

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61% Normal
Based on 18 votes (11 yes)
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Comments ( 38 )
  • Nickvey

    i had a college suitemate one year tell me he wasnt gay but was a cross dresser, why did he fucking lie to me? so he wants to dress up as a woman and i told him i didnt care to see it. he got all pissy gay like about it , told me he was willing to lube up his backside and let me top him. then he walked away like some little hurt bitch. then i found out he was the president of the gay alliance on campus. 6 months latter i did see him leaving his room dressed as a woman . it took me about three seconds after he passed that i realized it was him. That's because the little fucker was hot. shit , i mean he almost caused a boner. he could have had better people skills

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    • randomGuyOnTheBoat

      Oh wow, I think that is slightly different story...

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  • CDmale4fem

    It still surprises me how close minded some people are still here in 2018. As much as people try and get people to be accepting and nonjudgmental, no matter what is different about someone, there is always another someone to jump right up and try to remind society how sick,and twisted the person is and by canned that's not living life according to my thoughts and how it should be.

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    • randomGuyOnTheBoat

      Thank you!

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  • RoseIsabella

    I remember I had this one very handsome, tall boyfriend in college who was chillin with me in my dorm room. I got up to go to the bathroom, and when I came back he was wearing my best matching bra and panty set. 😯

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    • Nickvey

      wait < he didnt think you would ever come back? or was he just pranking you ? whats up with it?

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      • RoseIsabella

        He was just being an idiot as far I was concerned.

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    • CDmale4fem

      So it was more of a shock than a turn on ?

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      • RoseIsabella

        Well, it wasn't a turn on for me.

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        • McBean

          Couldn't you have given him an old pair that you didn't want? It would have been a nice momento of a night of hot monkey love.

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          • RoseIsabella

            No, I don't think so. That's not my style. I don't do stupid things just to make other people happy if those things are of no interest to me.

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            • McBean

              Well yes. You've never been the mindlessly happy type. I think critical thinking is a primary component in any relationship. If I visualize your overnight partner standing there in your bra and panty set with his hairy balls dangling out, seems safe to say that critical thinking was not his forte.

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    • randomGuyOnTheBoat

      Must have been funny. He was most likely joking around. Bras aren't my thing, panties are the sexy thing...

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  • I think it's not only normal, but I applaud you for taking a "risk" to do something that brings you pleasure! Congratulations and enjoy !

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  • Gay and degenerate

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    • CDmale4fem

      Another thing that surprises me is when others are still ok with saying things are gay or oh yea, a degenerate. I'm glad I'm older and not being raised by the New age anti social racist, judgmental, everything's gay in my world"

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      • Good for you. I respect that. But I have my own values and culture and I am not influenced by new age thinking, but by my traditional spirit that my ancestors had to give birth to me and to create families, not in degenerate lgbt fags and cross-dressers who destroy our traditions and have no direction in life

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        • CDmale4fem

          Well, I guess we can't expect much more than that sort of thinking from you. We understand, you are afraid of things that you don't understand, don't want to try and understand, or even have mindset of "whatever- it's someone else's life it's not mine so as long as it's in their house and not mine then I don't care". So why worry about someone else's life that has no direct bearing on yours and they live in another town, state, or country even ? It seems like some people are to busy worrying about how others live their life instead of focusing on their own home and family. Who knows how much better life could be if people didn't spend so much time peeking out the Windows at the neighbors and being a Mrs. Kravitz. (From Bewitched- Abner, come look. Hey Abner). I believe that was their nanes.

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          • I don't care what you think about me. The purpose if this website is to have different opinions to have a fair view upon normality/norms. If you ask questions here and you expect only people that agree with you then you must go on an LGBT forum, not on an "Is it normal?" forum. Arguing with people who make the votes fair and contribute to an accurate reflection of the truth is a waste of time. We are not here to convert others to liberalism, we are here to express our views.

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            • louminis

              FINALY someone said it

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    • randomGuyOnTheBoat

      That's constructive. Gay guys don't even use them.

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  • In think it's not normal however it's not that big of a deal. You don't hurt anyone with this. I suspect there might have been a childhood experience or a pushed down emotion that caused it in you. People like word shit. If it makes you happy and you don't hurt anyone in the process of indulging in it, go ahead. By the way, I don't think it means that you're gay, most transvestites statistically dig women.

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    • randomGuyOnTheBoat

      I went on looking for a detailed definition of 'transvestites', which you seem to have called me, and I don't really relate to them, at least not up to the full definition. I don't have any other girly clothes nor manners. I act completely normal as a guy. I only wear panties with my girlfriend and it turns me on to fuck her. When alone, panties don't have a meaning for me.

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      • That's fine. You might not be a transvestite, or just in a small percent. As I said, if it doesn't hurt anyone, have at it. I don't think we need to live up to a "normal" standard at all, if we all tried that we would lose our personalities. So, I'd say, don't worry. If your girlfriend is fine with this, all the best.

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  • Nickvey

    i think she would look the best in them . what do you think?

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    • lordofopinions

      I second that! ;)

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  • realservitude

    It's a little kinky, but it's one of the more common kinks.

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