Is it normal i want to kill my bf's cousin?

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She is a liar, a thief, a manipulator. She let's bills get delinquent so her mom bails her out. She leaves her children to be raised by everyone else, except for the baby she keeps for herself. If her mom won't buy her something, she refuses to let her mom around the precious grandkids. Finally, she's on SS and brags about how she's manipulated the system so she has never worked a day in her life. I think the family would be better if she weren't around. I want to report her for SS fraud but I know her mom would break, emotionally & financially, if her SS was cut.

Report her for fraud 25
Bury her somewhere 16
Leave the bf - its not worth it 4
Just ignore it, its not your problem 19
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  • imadragon
    10 years ago

    Just stay away from her.

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  • chocolatchaud
    11 years ago

    wow, she really needs to wake up. like really. i'm sorry for you and her family. but she's still family to them. i hope something terrible enough would happen to her but not to completely break her down and kill her so that she will finally learn and mature from it.

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  • Q8i_girl
    12 years ago

    even though u kill her

    1. the cops will find out

    2. the kids dont know her well as they get older and they will think everyone was lying

    3. the economy system is not going any well and there could be problems where money is cut down. so this brings families closer together.

    when the kids get older they start to think on who they want to be with and trust and i had experience with manipulators before ok

    she will act and say words that the kids will feel sorry and try to make their mom happy by staying with her while she takes more money

    u need to talk to them and asks what she says and how u feel . but since u know shes manipulative then they could have responded feeling bad and worried she gets angry.

    u c since their away and raised by others , they will feel less conected with the mom so they will choose to stick with connected

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      The oldest is 14. He has already learned he is bigger than his mom or grandmother, and has hit both of them. He has learned exactly how to make his grandmother feel guilty when she tells him no. That's how he has 2 xboxes and a wii, and many pairs of $300 collectible basket ball shoes. And he has already been suspended from school for popping his grandmothers prescriptions pain pills.

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      • Q8i_girl
        12 years ago

        ............ military bootcamp for kids is the answer . even though he rushes in for complaining and begging , tell him he " needs to learn self-respect and respect others and not to hit others whose much in older age and younger age .
        he may think its just that he was sent there because he was hated but he needs to be reminded what was said before and because he was spoilt and was not raised by a real man.

        im not saying that u guys did'nt do a good job , but there different kinds of kids with personlaity such as some are aware of surroundings and acts different in a good why so u don't need to have stress and worry about them making mistakes because they have common sense.

        meanwhile some think without common sense which may cause alot of problems without being strict and reward for being good.

        so basicaly if one of the kid are in good behaviour you can have fun or when they make a mistake u consult them by having conversations aswell.

        meanwhile the bad behaviour is when punishment is needed until he or she admits and learns the mistake but remember if the punishment was lets say for 1 week or 1 day or 2 days then remember to keep it that way even if it was before the apology or during or after .

        if admiting or no apology was said u have to extend the punishment. if the behaviour is wild then bootcamp it is.

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