Is it normal i want to keep my daughter away from her grandmother?

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Hm, Where do I start?...Well first lemme say I know I probably seem selfish but over a course of 2 years this has been happening..Ive lived in Georgia for about 3 years now.. My husbands mother and his sisters also live down here...I have no family here besides my daughter and husband... Me and his mother has some animosity toward each other because I had received a inheritance from my dead aunt and didnt give her any money (Which I didnt need to)...The reason why I decided not to give her any money was because once I moved from New York to Georgia and lived with her a little she started to treat me like crap. She let the lights go off,Didnt have no food in the fridge meanwhile I WAS PREGNANT! I was eating out everyday because her lights were off and she didnt want to buy any food. After my daughter was born I had recieved my inheritance and rented me a place. She came by when I didnt have any furniture(just moving in) and complained about everything!!! she looked in my cabinets, my draws, everything!.. After living in my apt for about a year or so... she only stopped by to see her granddaughter only 4 times since i lived down here. My mother came down from NY to see her granddaughter and seen her more times then his mom..Now just a few days ago im tlking with my sis in law and she mentions since I didnt do anything for her mothers birthday so her mother decided she wasnt gonna take the time to see her grand daughter because of it.. Now its not that I dont want her to see her its just she gives no effort to see her own grand daughter and she only lives 20 minutes away I dont feel i must go out of my way to bring my daughter to her. Am I just being a selfish bitch and just go to her or should I just wait and see if she decides to finally come see my daughter?

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  • hermione
    9 years ago

    horrible woman dont bother with her

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  • Dr.Moe_Lester
    9 years ago

    Problems on both sides. Your kinda selfish and she is a bitch. Nuff' said.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    9 years ago

    I mean I know she cant miss any body she doesnt even be around. But it hurts that she cant even give the effort to see her grand daughter.. She has 3 grandsons and is in their life always.. If he daughter calls asking for food or diapers she a runnin' And If I was to ask her for 20 dollars she'd be a bitch about it and everything like that and say she aint gonna help because she knows were good..She just a jealous prick. When I lived with her she would try and make me and my husband argue and stuff.

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    • Caitlynnlifee21
      9 years ago

      Move back. I only had one grandma and hell that was the life. I don't even like my dad's side. But then again. Your husbandd....

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    9 years ago

    Well he's always on my side but he once in a while he makes statements like ''let it go'' or ''Your just not gonna keep her away from my baby'' but I just want her to give the effort like I dont want her just to come cause his sisters are coming over so she a tag along I want her to call on her own and see her.

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  • charli.m
    9 years ago

    Sounds like just the sort of person your daughter doesn't need in her life.

    When I was two, my parents divorced. Dad's mother sent my mum a letter through her lawyer saying she never wanted to see me or my brother again. No loss to us...

    What does your husband think of all this?

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    I dunno, girl, but whatever you do don't give that old witch any of your money. How does your husband feel about this whole mess with his crazy ass mama?

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