Is it normal i want to date a loon!

No I do not mean bird since I do not doubt someone is going to make that joke. I mean I want to find a person who is crazy, unpredictable, fun, random, spontaneous and nutty. Crazy but not necessarily in a dangerous way but more like "What kind of drugs are you on"? Kind of way. I have searched my whole life and I can not find someone like this! Why is it so hard to find someone so crazy! Its so boring! Kind of like the personalities of joker or maybe the riddler from batman. I do not mean dark-knight version either. Someone who makes a point to look good but absolutely crazy! So me and that person could be crazy together!

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  • disthing

    Sure! But you rarely get completely tolerably whacky without some downsides. To be crazy and spontaneous usually involves having some not so entertaining qualities - actual mental illness for example (bipolarity, anxiety, psychosis etc.).

    Also unpredictability isn't always a good thing. They might not turn up on time or at all, they might not be there for you when you need them. In their crazy, spontaneous way, they might fluctuate emotionally and sexually to great degrees. They might take risks, serious risks, with their own life or other people's...

    I mean the characters you hold up as romanticised ideals for the kind of nutty man you want are mass-murdering criminals (The Joker, The Riddler). They might be fun and cartoonish, but placed in a non-fictional context they would be violent sociopaths!

    I like slightly weird, adventurous girls, because, like you said, it keeps things entertaining. You can be odd together and have random adventures. But the people I've known who are "absolutely crazy" are NOT relationship material. They are a therapist's dream.

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  • Ghostclaws

    I know one! His name is Moonbow on IIN. After reading some of his comments I do find myself asking, "What kind of drugs are you on"?

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    • LOL Moonbow is a douche-bag.

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    • Moonbow

      So tell us, asswipe, how many IDs do you have now? We know you're the one who asked this ridiculous troll question and now you're answering yourself. That is the very definition of "loon."

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      • Ghost claw did not write this question.

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        • Ghostclaws

          I am sorry poll creator. My comment is going to make him keep coming back to this page. Now your post will just be filled with unnecessary rants about dogs and hate messages directed at me.

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      • Ghostclaws

        This is hilarious! ROFL!

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  • I like being around other crazy people too. They're more fun. Most my friends have something odd about them which I appreciate. It's good to know there are people out there like you too. I have had extreme difficulties finding girls that are attracted to my insanity. Even when it seems like they are they eventually end up realizing its more than they can handle. Most people say I'm fun to be around and like hanging out with me but finding someone who wants to live with me is a whole other story.

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  • You've come to the right place; lots of them make their way onto IIN.

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    • That however would require I date over the internet. Which means my life would be put at risk. No way of knowing what I am really getting or if they really are who they say they are.

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals

        This logic is flawed. Nowadays everyone uses the Internet so the percentage of whackos online is a reflection of the percentage in the entire population. You never truly know somebody until you, well know them. Whether you met them on or offline.

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        • That is not everyone. Also not everyone using the internet is using it to goof off. Some people use the internet and the computer strictly for work and research. Also people can more easily lie online.

          They can say "Hi im a 14 year old girl" and its a pervert looking for kids. You can say "Hey I am a gay male looking for love" and its a female pretending to be a gay man.

          Not that I am looking for either of those but those are some of the things you can lie about that can not really be verified. In real life most of the time you can tell if someone is a 40 year old man, a kid, or adult male and females.

          Cross-dressers sometimes can hide it but look how much work it takes! Online you just lie and say "Yeah I am totally an attractive 20 year old female" and could be a big fat guy masturbating at the other end of the keyboard.

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          • GoraIntoDesiGals

            That's why webcams were made. I've met girls online but that was after some cam and Skype time.

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            • Firstly I never invested in a video camera. Secondly that seems like a lot of information to give to someone I might or might not want to meet. If I do not care to meet the person I am not going to give them enough to identify me in a crowd. That puts me at risk.
              I would not mind so much hanging around with an unstable person but I would like knowing what I got myself into. You can not tell what the other person is planning to do once you meet up. Male or female they have traps designed for both.

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            • Was using Skype a pretty good tool for accurately predicting what you the girl was like in real-life?

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      • Loony people are risky anyway; you still wouldn't know what you're getting. :$

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        • Predictable is boring though! Relationships are too simple. To fix the problem I would have to find a nutcase! A nutcase is fun and unpredictable. Spontaneous means its always new.

          If something is always new that means it never get old. If it never gets old that means you can stay together forever and the spark never dies.

          A lot of relationships end because the spark dies. The spark dies when you become use to the person. If someone is crazy this will never happen! Besides I meant nutty in a whacky way not a homicidal kind of way.

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  • bosslady714

    I know at least 8 girls exactly like that. The only problem is, You can't turn it off when its needs to be turned off.

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  • Move to my old town.

    It's nothing but crazies.

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    • What is your old town?

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  • TheAnarkyOfLife

    Now thats different!
    Different is good!
    ...
    I like turtles.

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  • TheHappyGoLuckyKid

    So you want to date a loon~ Sweetpea there are so many different types of loons, make sure if you date a loon,

    1. you should bring random stuff

    2. Make sure that they don't kill people

    3. Make sure that they are not to childish or old-ish

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    • I just said not someone who is dangerous. I said that 3 times.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Hang around outside your state's mental hospital. You should be able to pick something up.

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    • Dear if I went anywhere near a mental hospital they would lock me up in instant. I am really not dim enough to risk my own freedom by going near one. Being in a mental hospital means you are a helpless test rat. You have no rights or freedom. You are at the mercy of your captors.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Yes, who wouldn't want to date a loom? After passionate caressing your loom can make you fine garments. You'll never have to go to a store and give your money to sweaty cashiers ever again.

    ... Oh, wait, I see... You meant a loon.

    My hopes are now dashed.

    *Stifles tears*

    *Goes into kitchen and puts a kettle on the stove*

    It's tea time, bitches!

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    • megadriver

      I just read that in a british-James May-sort of accent and I laughed more than I should have... :D

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      • Avant-Garde

        Is he a actor?

        Actually, the piece was intended to be funny:)

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        • megadriver

          He is one of the presenters of the show "Top Gear".
          The only series I watch. It's very funny!

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    • I said loon! May I have some of your tea sir?

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      • Avant-Garde

        Certainly. What would you like? I've got herbal, black and green teas.

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  • dirtybirdy

    What do you have against birds?

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    • Nothing! I was just clarifying. Before someone made a bird joke.

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      • dirtybirdy

        What do you have against bird jokes?

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        • Troll...A birdy troll.

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          • _Molotov_Cocktail_

            You can have something against bird jokes as far as I'm concerned. Better not have anything against Molotov cocktails though…
            *brandishes Molotov cocktail in a menacing manner

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            • dirtybirdy

              That does it. The battle has begun.

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            • Im not sure what a molotov cocktail is. It sounds like a drink you would make of car fuel. I know that cant be right though. I dont drink.

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