Is it normal i want to cheat with hin?

Okay. I'm not going to tell you how old I am. But other than that, here's my story.

I have 3 best friends. 1 is in the mental hospital, one knows what I'm about to tell u , and the other Is going to get really Hurt if she finds out

I have a boyfriend. I love him more than anything in the entire world. I wouldn't break up with him for anything. But that all just changed.
My best friend, the one who is about to get really hurt, lets call her Linda. So Linda has this brother, he's a lot older than me and I kind of like worship him. It's like a joke that goes on u know, ? And so like he doesn't (didn't) know I exist and all that I'm just one of his sisters friends. But I mean I smoked pot with him once and ended up telling him I love him and a bunch of shit. But other than that, he barely knew me. So tonight he texted me, And we were talking about other shit (he never usually texts me, it was really weird) and he told me he wants to hook up. I was like spazzing out. This is serious, and he said no one will know and just yeah. Oh, and another thing, linda is madly in love with my boyfriend. So if she found out her brother, let's call him Jon , hooked up with me she would practically murder me. And btw when he says Hook up he means make out. And yeah. I told my other friend, and she Says I shouldnt and yeah I told her I won't. And he later referred to it as "have a thing" .. Idk what that's soposed to mean. And yeah.

So here's the thing, I know its not right. I know I shouldn't, it will fuck up my entire life if anyone finds out. But I mean, I REALLY like him. But like. Nothing more. And he's REALLY hot. This is like a once in a lifetime opportunity, I swear . he's like in a band, dropped out of highscool, and totally bad ass.

But if I do and anyone finds out, then I will lose my friends and my boyfriend. Ik I'm young and this won't matter in my future, but it matters now.

So , should I risk everything I have for what I want? Of do what's right?

So, yes or no? Should I?

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Based on 9 votes (4 yes)
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  • georgienne

    I won't tell you how old I am either.
    Just cause we're so darn secretive here on IIN...

    Youre right this is wrong, stupid and will ruin your life.
    Let's get some thing's straight, though:

    You don't love your boyfriend. Honestly, there's nothing you can say, if you've considered cheating, he isn't worth your exclusivity.
    This guy who you REALLY like, but nothing more? It's called infatuation. The worst thing to blame a failed relationship on.

    You owe your boyfriend a new girlfriend (Come on in, Linda), and whether you screw the brother or not is up to you. He doesn't want a relationship anymore than you want yours.

    'A thing' means, 'have sex, then he walks.'

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  • rayst

    Georgienne is soo right. Personnally i would only have said you are a stupid cunt.

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  • JJxoxo

    I say that if you like him and he really does like you back (hes not just using you) You do what your heart tells you. Your friends would understand. If 'Linda' gets mad at you it makes her a hippocrite because she feels the same way about your boyfriend. Do what you honestly think is the best choice for YOU! Not anyone else.

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  • Plumpy

    I couldn't agree more with georgienne :)

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  • Thanks for the shitty comments.

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  • Tisgranum

    Find a site for teen bullshit. This is 18+

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  • ygrowup

    This is not a good risk your about to take, and it is something that you may fantasize about for years to come, but you really should leave it as that!

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  • BoredGuy

    we all can understand your are not old enough. This is too stupid for me to reply srriously, maybe someone can "help" you out.

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