Is it normal i want to change gender?

I'm a boy. I don't really like talking to other people my gender (and I have no friends). I'm scared of other boys because they hit people.. I don't like violence. I wish I'm a girl. I hate sports.

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Based on 114 votes (68 yes)
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  • Huh. I feel that way about both genders, but I don't want to change who I am. I just try to find the few exceptions to the rule and hang around with them instead.

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  • PoisonFlowers

    Just because you don't like your peers, it doesn't mean that you want to be a girl. How do you know that talking to girls would be any different? How do you know that they don't hit?

    Changing yourself won't change others. It's a matter of finding decent people that you can talk to.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Doesn't really sound like a good reason to get a sex change. Nothing in your post says that you genetically aline yourself as being a female. You just sound scared of your gender and you are running away from your fears by wishing you were a female. The aspects of males you refer to, some of them are nothing more than stereotypes. I think that you should see an LGBT-friendly therapist to help get you down to your fears of men, etc.

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  • IncludedSos

    It seems that you are looking to switch gender roles/stereotypes rather than literally switch gender. Also, the qualities of male and female that you listed were very vague, meaning that there are many men like you who identify as both male and female. I guess what I'm trying to say is, just be you, because you can easily fit into society, despite the fact that you feel different. The only "male" part of you is your penis, and it doesn't limit you to act or be any way. Of course, if you literally want a vagina instead of a penis, then you could have a sex change. However, I've no idea how costly that is.

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  • ant659

    i wish i was a girl, i find that when i act myself i act very girly. but i have to act like a guy because i AM one after all :P

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  • _me_

    /\ that is some sentence!

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  • eleventhdr

    Yes it is really quite alright to want to be the other gender otherwise their would not be so mnay of us out here trying to get over to the otherside those of us who only want to be female instead of male i am with you on this just becase i to have alwaya wanted and wished to be a girl myself and i still want this i want to change and transform into a girl once and for al and then being a girl i would dress and be as girly as it possible just becasue i am suppose to ahve been born a female and so have always loved the very thought of finally being in the female gender and sex at last mnay of us want this you are not alone thier is nothing wrong with wanting and wishing to be what you are meant to be and if that ids being fenmale then yeah we are all with you on this i also want to be a girl and so i support you on your desire to be female we those of us who only wnat to be girls are all with you their is nothing wrong with wanting to be a girl trust me on this one being a girl is wonderful and i and a lot of others want to be girls to!

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  • Gidget

    embrace who u are dnt try and change it u can get ur penis removed but ull still be a boy

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  • oogliebooglie

    How about instead of asking other people what you are/ are you normal etc. You define Yourself. You are an Individual. In this situation nobody can decide for you whether you are this or that. Sit down and make a decision do I feel more comfortable Identifying in a girl(role) or a boy(role) or am I mix/something else? I think gender roles need to expand and have more categories for people so they don't feel so lost.

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  • BOYracer88

    im jelous of girls, theyre clothes are so pretty and theyre hair smells nice all the time. you are who you are nothing can change that

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    • Impact25

      i also think that

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  • ComboBreaker

    Normal, obviously. Other wise there would be no sex change operations.

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  • I'm sorry but that's just taking it too far

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  • qwerty246

    SEX CHANGE

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  • depends. cuz if your straight its might be a problem cuz i dont think a lesbian will want you since you were a guy.

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    • Schythl

      Not true. There are a lot of male-to-female transsexuals who find a lesbian partner.

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