Is it normal i want to be pregnant at 19?

Starting at about age 13 I've wanted to be pregnant and have a child of my own... I'm now 19 and have friends that are now pregnant and have had children and right now my sister and best friend are both pregnant and I am so jealous.... I have been wanting to get pregnant forever and have even tryed and I'm not even worried if I stay with the father or not I just want a child for myself I have even lied about being on the pill just so I can have unprotected sex.... is this normal???

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39% Normal
Based on 186 votes (72 yes)
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  • Juanita023

    Not only do have to be financially prepared, you also have to be mentally prepared. To be honest, I don't think you're ready to be a mother, based on the fact that you're immature enough to lie about being on the pill. Being a mother is a huge responsibility that involves maturity...a lot of it. Another thing is do you want a baby or do you want to be a mother? This question may sound weird so let me explain. A lot of young ladies want a baby. They don't want a toddler, a teenager, or an adult. They forget that babies don't stay that way forever. Their too wrapped up in the baby stage to realize that babies grow...fast!!! Are you ready to handle a hyperactive toddler? Are you ready to deal with a rebellious teenager? Are you ready to possibly still make sacrifices when your child becomes an adult? Being a mother is a lifelong responsibility. It doesn't end when your child stops being this precious little baby. It also doesn't end when your child grows up and leaves the nest. Are you ready for that? I'm not trying to make you feel bad or coming down on you. I just want you to realize how serious having a child is.

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    • hotchickie81

      HAHAHAHAHA!! Good one! ;)

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  • ikaboo

    totally normal to want kids but trying to get a guy to fuck you and lying about being on the pill is just a dick move.

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  • darkfuneral

    yes get pregnant! its funny to watch girls like you get all excited about having a kid, and then there like oh no ive ruined my life cuz i have no job or school and a kid

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    • jen

      so right

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  • soccer2

    U should wait. For the kids sake. Get a good job and also kids need their daddy so if u don't wanna stay with guy then don't have a baby with him. U need to get
    Ur priorities
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  • Dstnct

    Juno ?

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  • chaskins

    People like you are the reason we pay so much taxes (so you can live on child support and raise your ten kids) Do you have a stable job, a home, etc? Don't mooch off the system. & i agree with ikaboo. dick move to lie about being on the pill, and then making your baby daddy help you out

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  • well before you do that u better have your own home a fulltime job that can support your baby ans so on but if you dont have any of those things and still living with parents then wtf yeah maybe u want one but i dout the baby would like a mother that cant support it

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  • mysti446

    Crazy.. At 19 you think you are mature and ready.. But the fact is you're not. Grow up, get married, then around 25 + you MIGHT be ready for kids! You have to be selfLESS to be a good parent, not selfISH.

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  • sammif

    OMG im totaly obsessed wit havin a baby now. i went wit a friend n her fam campin memorial day n one of t he families had a baby n i held him like all weekend. i fed him n even changed him.
    i been talkin to a guy who wuz there campin n he agrees if its somthin i wanna do i should.

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  • GaryT

    Sex is a pleasure, getting pregnant is a nightmare for an unmarried young girl like you.

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  • asnormalasyou2

    19 is not to young, think back to the early years, as soon as you bleed then your old enough. its only now that its not good if you are under a age set by the goverment.

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  • timberwolves03

    Wanting to be pregnant is normal. Yes. Lying about the pill is NOT, not caring about the child's father is NOT. If you get a child, you surely sound like you're gonna overprotect him/her.

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  • Don't listen to all the condemnation. It's wonderful what you're trying to do. Being pregnant and having a baby is fantastic! You should use one of the online ovulation calculators to figure out when the best time is. WebMD has a good one. Then mark your calendar and when it says your ovulating start fucking. Don't stop when it say your cycle is over cause it might be a bit off. Try to get fucked every day until your pregnant. Good luck!

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  • lightgiver

    DO NOT LIE TO YOUR PARTNER ABOUT NOT TAKING THE PILL!

    It is a guy's nightmare for a girl lie to him about his partner lying about taking the pill then one day surprise you got a new son/daughter.

    It is a horrible idea for it breaks the trust between you 2. You gotta think about what is best for your baby, you really want to raise it in your parents house without a farther?

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  • xoxo29

    ^^^Juanita023 summed it all up! And one more thing... You're a selfish, immature, lying idiot!!!!

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  • missworld7

    Biologically, It's normal. (Coming from an evolutionary standpoint)

    But since we live in a culture where jobs and education are necessary to sustain a good life, it's not a good idea.

    Having children when you are not financially secure is a selfish thing to do.

    Please think about the child first, instead of what you want. If you would love your future child, wouldn't you want it to grow up with a good childhood and nice things? If you do not have a stable income, then please wait until you do.

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  • Teecat

    You will regret this.

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  • Very normal ill make it happen for you!!!

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  • A_Man_With_A_Plan

    It is normal - the animal side of your brain tells you to have a baby. Just use the rational side of your brain to think it over.

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  • somekidd

    make sure you're financially secure first :) but go ahead, you're not a slut, its just instinct.

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  • chocolate_123

    No you crazy wait until u get older to do that shit :/

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  • kevinclancy

    babe it is very wrong for you to trick people into having unprotected sex, your at that age when girls start to get broody but unfortunatly girls do it all the time so it is normal.

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  • krud12

    hello mama.... u wana feel kicks n ur womb dn go ahead... bt see 2 it .. wats ur partners decision bout it...coz u cnt gt pregnant on ur own

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  • Ryan7395

    You're a terrible, stupid person!

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  • Narrrrrr

    Have the damn baby. I started having kids when I was 14. You stupid children wait to long and so when youre 40, all your babies come out down syndrome like sarah palins little tyke.

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