Is it normal i want to be abused in a relationship?

You are a sexual masochist. You like being dominated by a man who fucks the living shit out of you. HOTT

Yep, the illness you were looking for is Münchausen syndrome. The similar, but entirely separate illness that klnmml was referring to is Münchausen syndrome by proxy (where you inflict illness on others, especially children).

I personally don't think either of these things are true of you. I think you want to experience a lack of power and control in a sexual environment (submission). It's entirely normal. Find yourself a dominant partner, choose a "safe" word for you to use when things have stepped beyond your boundaries, and have fun!

i think you are just an attention seeker who is basically spitting in the face of everyone who has ever been in a traumatic abusive relationship. it is normal to fantasize and even act out (role playing) sub/dom scenarios as long as you and your partner both have a very clear understanding of what is acceptable by eachother, but that is a serious thing too and you want to make sure you can trust the other person because it's possible even in that situation to believe you are only doing what you are ok with even though deep down inside its isn't what you want and that can be damaging! but seriously you sound like a little girl that needs to grow the fuck up! being a victim isn't cool its heartbreaking, and wanting to be a victim is just pathetic!

That's just an insult to people that have been in DV relationships. Grow up.

you're not an idiot.

abusive relationships are serious and they are not fun and i think the person asking this question fully understands that. rather than demonize the person for asking or dismissing it as being solely a sexual fetish or just attention-seeking for no reason at all, remember that there is /always/ a reason, for /everything/. wanting to be hurt is disordered for sure, but in a way it is normal, because it's honestly a lote more common than people seem to think. it's most often due to environmental conditioning and past abuse or neglect, which can lead to certain personality disorders that cause people to act wrecklessly, impulsively, and dramatically as this because they weren't taught how to ask for help/seek love and care normally — meaning that this person is probably suffering a lot more than you might think.

it's okay to want attention but when you put yourself in a dangerous situation in order to get attention that's not okay. you're not the worthless piece of shit you think you are. you don't need to throw yourself under the bus just so people will care about you. there are people out there who will care about you, who DO care about you, just because you're you. if you genuinely want to be abused, really think about why, because once you do i'm sure you'll realize that what you actually want is just to be loved, like everyone does.

find someone who wants what is best for you, not someone who wants to push you down a flight of stairs. love yourself. you matter. you don't deserve to be stepped on like that. go ask someone to give you a hug instead.

my moms been in motible abusive relationships, and ive been raped twice... so for u to want it makes no sence... so shut the fuck up about it its not a good thing to b a victime grow the hell up!... you might b rich and so i would love to beat you up!

In no way should you ever want to be in an abusive relationship, trust me! I've seen relationships where someone is verbally abused and it just tears them down to the point where they are so depressed and don't even know what to do anymore. Honestly, you don't want that.

It's called munchausins (I'm not sure if the spelling). Please don't have kids or you'll start harming them for the attention. Get some help.

I'm sorry honey but i don't think that is normal. I mean you just may not understand the seriousness of abusive relationships but they are not fun. and its not something you wanna go around talking about to get sympathy. The relationship would seriously fuck you up.

To cure your ailment I recommend you live in a box, in an alleyway, in NYC. Whore yourself out. Let your pimp boyfriend steal all your money, slap you around, and fuck you up when you're not making him any money.

Yes, that might change your tone.

And no, I don't think this is Munchausen's. Those patients typically physically harm themselves. Ie. Rip post-surgical skin grafts off, play with their wounds, stab fingers into fresh wounds and rummage their fingers around, sew random objects under their skin or in wounds. Very odd behavior. At least what I have seen. This girl sounds more like one who has been given everything in life and this is her 'means of escape' from a perfect world. Or she was abused as a child and is looking for that familiarity on a mate. But alas, none of us are e-doctors are we?

Pajamas!

You're thinking of Munchausens by proxy. And no, you're just an idiot with no self respect.

Yesi think that all the time!! Am i normall??

I think you just want to feel the loss of power. Which I understand.. I love being submissive, only during sex though (but not all the time)

its a good thing there are doctors on the internet ^

:P