Is it normal i want this kind of relationship?

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I want a long term companion. They can be a man or a woman, old or young, with kids, divorced, widowed. Race and income doesn't matter to me either. I'm not monogamous and I don't need sex.

I want to find a person who would just be there for me. Just love me and reassure me. I want them to live with me but they can see other people and be free to do whatever they want. I will not restrict them.

I want them to be with me for a long time, preferably until I die. However, if they feel the need to move on, they can. I want the relationship to at least last 10 years. They don't need to spend money on me or anything. Is this weird?

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  • Cymbalism
    8 years ago

    It sounds like you value real love over sex, and that's a great thing. :)

    I can't say how likely it is that you could find a relationship just like you described, though. But honestly, a good friend can satisfy most of those things.

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  • Cooldawg
    8 years ago

    This is very normal, especially for someone with a huge heart and someone who loves affection, my grandmother has been with her husband for 20 years and i hope you can find someone who will spend their life with you also, good luck!

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    It sounds fairly unrealistic, but I wish you luck finding who you seek. It took me 18 years to find my perfect partner, so be patient.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    I want a dog to join my cat and I.

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    • wistfulmaiden
      8 years ago

      Ha we just got a doggie. I was skeptical but I'm really liking her so far:)

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Congratulations, what kinda doggie did you get?

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        • wistfulmaiden
          8 years ago

          A wiener dog:) as my son calls them we called her Penny. She's not that different from my cat except sometimes she barks. But sometimes the cat barks!

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          • RoseIsabella
            8 years ago

            Hurray for barking kitties!

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  • thefuckup
    8 years ago

    Nobody loves you if you dont do weird sex things.

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  • LuxM4G
    8 years ago

    I believe your not thinking straight my dear.

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    • 匚卄尺口爪モ╰☆╮匚工匕丹刀モㄥ
      8 years ago

      This person wants a FRIEND. Sounds pretty normal to me.

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