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For eff sake all I want is a nice guy that doesn't need porn coz he has me is that so hard to find seriously!
I hope you are willing to give it up at anytime cause that's your only chance of having a guy that doesn't watch porn "because he has you."
All guys want is a girl that hasn't gone insane with her self-esteem issues....
I would give up porn for a relationship, I don't think it's that unreasonable to want in a guy, it's not like he can't masturbate without porn.
I feel the same way. Unfortunately, I have yet to find a man who doesn't do it. It's just something that we as women have to accept. There's nothing wrong with having a high standard of behavior. Good for you.
I'm SO sick of this question. It has NOTHING to do with you. Get some confidence, or... I bet you're really young. I used to think this way when I was a teenager.
Try watching it sometime. You can learn tricks that perhaps will keep your boyfriend off of the computer.
But, he still will watch it. It's not you, it's just how they are. Boys that don't watch porn are usually weird.
I'm a female and I watch it literally daily. It has nothing to do with my boyfriend not satisfying me, any repressed lesbian thoughts, etc etc... it's time for myself that I don't even think about anyone else. Try masturbating.
he wouldn't let me watch it with him he said it made him feel weird but I finally broke up with him and feel better :) thanks everyone who agrees with me hopefully one day we will find a decent guy xo and thanks to all the guys who said they would give up porn for love more guys should be like you xoo
why would someone deny the chance to look at a woman who is offering to show her ass for free online!? O_O
I don't think you are being unreasonable. If you can provide sex why does a guy still need to masturbate...? I just don't get it. What's sad is that it is so acceptable for men to do that that you are called insecure if you don't agree with the norm. I think porn is visual cheating. I doubt guys would accept their girlfriends/wives fantasizing about other men.
it's normal. and trust me there are guys out there willing to sacrifice porn for a woman they find beautiful and care about. dont give up hope.
You see your only seeing what you want and not what he wants. Open your mind and enjoy your bodies together or loose every man you ever meet. Sex is not dirty its only your mind that make's it dirty. The joy is for the taking.
Your view is for narow minded stereo typical prude. Sorry
yes you can find a guy who doesnt watch porn just keep looking if every single guy in this world watched porn or was addicted to it it would be chaos.
good luck finding a guy who doesnt watch porn and the guys who say they dont watch it, are lying.
You sound controlling and insecure.
You don't need a man, you need a therapist.
A lot if guys don't look at porn, but if they do, the majority of the time is that they need some more "excitement"'in their love life, alot of couples watch porn together
I wish you the best of luck me and my boyfriend will wach porn together but we never masturbate toghether
no that's not normal. Be thankful that he is only watching porn, instead of seeking his fantasies elsewhere.
Though, when I was with my last girlfriend, I would feel bad if i ever looked at porn, so i only masturbated to the thought of her. So there are guys like this out there. But then i found out the bitch cheated on me, and I had absolutely no problem jacking off to porn from then on.
Very normal. I wanted this for ages but then I got into porn and I realised lust and love aren't always connected so I learnt to accept porn but all men are different. My ex used to constanstly watch it and lie to me where as my current bf doesn't and looks at pics of me (or so he says lol). It's just perferance and maybe you can find a guy you like, express your opinion and they may stop? Not all guys are the same but you need to be open as well :)
Men and women have different wants in a sex life. Porn is a fantasy that lets a man accomplish the natural drive built into him from billions of years of selective pressure with out cheating on you. Why would you want your man to not be satisfied?
Why does it matter if he watches porn or not. As Long as its not an addiction it kiddy porn then I wouldn't care if a guy watches porn. I guess that's the difference between a secure woman and an insecure woman.
I just want to say; all these lame ass comments are warped beyond beleif! Insecure my ass :/ I would say there probably aren't alot of guys out there that don't look at porn, but you could probably find a guy who would stop for you. Deep down inside I think alot of women want a man who doesn't do that! We just all force ourselves to accept it and make excuses to feel better. Don't bash a woman who's being honest with herself! I have a man who doesn't look at porn, and no he's not lying about it! So there is hope out there lady :P Good luck in your search!
good luck! What you really need is to get over it. Stop being so insecure. How about you join him and stop being so prudish, have a little fun. Maybe you can find a guy that only has eyes for you, prince charming. Wake up and join the real world. Get off your high horse and join him.
hes a man so he has a higher sex drive than you you cant expect him to starve himself of orgasms because you dont like porn
if i was in a relationship and my girlfriend asked me to, i would stop watching porn. but hey im not and dont really think i will for a few years, so i couldnt say for certain. it is normal for guys to do that though
I don't masturbate unless my man is watching. At least get the other person involved somehow while you masturbate.
all men watch porn ... just like all men go to the washroom ... grow up maybe ?
Dont get turned off by that, porn is a good way to learn positions etc. I often watch porn while fantacising about a girl in my school doing whats in porn videos lol. SO dont let it put you off all guys do it but it dont mean they dont like you and dont think about you in that way.
When you do with him what he,s loking at he wont need porn.
So Think about it Anal,Blow Jobs, Facials, Masturbation, Toys,Two at a time, Bondage,69,
etc,etc,etc
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most guys learn tequnique that girls like on the porn sights. You did not say how your sex is or was before you dumped him.????
try not to think about it you are worrying over nothing. he probly wouldnt understand you standing in front of the cake shop window trying to choose what cake you want for 20 minutes...oops thats me not you, anyhow dont worry be happy for his strong sex drive
The problem I see with women wanting a guy who doesnt look at porn is that looking at porn is normal. It is natural for a guy to wanna see the most beautiful women ever naked. What is not normal is when guys don't want that. Plus porn does not equal masturbation, porn leads to it quite a bit but not always masturbation.