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I'm 22, female, and I've slept with 9 men. IIN? Is it alot? I know alot of girls my age who've slept with many more, but some who have slept with fewer too...
| It's alot | 11 | |
| It's not that much | 8 | |
| It's average | 12 | |
| It's not enough | 6 | |
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I think it's not a high number. Depends on when you lost your virginity.
Since you mentioned 1.5 guys per year, thats...6 years, so from 16 to 22, 1.5 guys per year.
Totally not much, imho. Now i _KNOW_ I'm not a standard to compare to, but i still believe that if you are not in a relationship or are in a open one, you shouldn't forego sex just because guys are envious.
In other words: enjoy short flings or ONS, you're young only once. You'll have a harder time doing this with 30 pounds and years more.
Don't listen to haters. If you are solo, an average of 1 guy a month is not too much if you go out like twice per week, and that would be 12 guys a year. If you WANTED to, you could probably have 8+ guys a month, THAT would be slutty(in a way).
So na, you are totally fine and rather on the pure side.
I don't think it's a particularly high or low number for someone of your age, if you're in the western world.
It's a little high I would say, although I slept with six different girls by the time I graduated HS. Of course it's a double standard. At that age, 22, I was highly unlikely to get serious about girl that I knew had been with anyone I knew. But that was a long time ago but guys still talk about who they had sex with and if I met someone and a friend would say something like "oh yeah, she's hot. She used to fuck so in so. Remember him. It was a big turn off. I'm more mature now.
I dont want to be mean, but I think that is a fairly high number for being only 22 yrs old, 32 not so bad, but for 22 kinda high. Take your foot off the gas a little bit, only because you may end up meeting a decent guy who will definitely not want to hear the number 9 at only 22 yrs old.
It's 1.5 guys for every year since I lost my virginity. And I don't think that a "decent" guy would judge me for how many people I've slept with. Tbh, even when 150 underage christians have voted that I'm a whore, I still won't think that 1.5 guys a year is alot.