Is it normal? i've planned out what i want to do when i have children.
When I have a child - be it male or female, though I really want a boy - I want to give it a very beautiful doll, and I want to create a whole story, many, even, to help sublimity teach my future child(ren) good morals and the like. I'm only a teenager myself but I want to begin working on it now, and throughout the next few years of my life, so it will be something really great for my children. I plan on making it old-fashioned and teaching my kids that way, so they can grow up peacefully and happy with themselves. I want to do yoga with them, teach them patience and of course not make them perfect, but do what I can to make them disciplined and I don't even know what to call it.
I'm a fan of the methods used on kids back in the day; whatever the religion, they were stuck onto it, did chores, worked hard, etc.
And I don't want to spoil them.
That may sound rude or whatever, I don't know, but I hate the way I was brought up. And I know times have changed but goddamnit, I want to raise them (though slightly more toned down) how the southern kids were in the 1800s. (SOMEBODY's been reading a little too much Tom Sawyer). But whatever.
And then I want to give them dolls - you know, those $300-$1000 dollar BJDs from Asia - and give them backstories, kind of like an epic, or a poem of some sort. Kind of like a guide or a second guardian for when I can't give them the emotional support they'll need.
Another thing. I'm not sure if I ever want to get pregnant. I consider myself asexual and I have no feelings beyond platonic for anybody, so I don't think I'll be marrying, unless I develop a, "best male friend" thing with somebody I guess, I don't really care. I'm seriously considering about adopting in the future. My goal is really young so I can start fresh, tabla rasa I think, but hey, we have to give the older ones attention too, right? :)
So, is this normal? I'm only in my teens and I'm already thinking about what I want to do. Also, do you think my ideals are farfetched? I wouldn't be so stupid as to have a kid NOW (duh), I'm young and haven't the money, time, and space. I'm talking about when I'm ready, I'll want to do this. And no, I'm not trying to make the "perfect children", that's impossible and ignorant (what are we without flaws?), so I'm sorry if I gave off that impression.
Thank you. :)
Also, what do YOU consider good morals?