Is it normal: i've never had a crush before?

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I'm about to turn 19, and I've never had a crush on a quote unquote real boy. Or a girl, for that matter. I've gone out on dates, I've had boyfriends, but I honestly don't ever feel anything for them. The only guys I've ever managed to fall for are guys who are completely unattainable. For instance, they're fictional. Or they're Ian Terry. I don't have crazy high standards, I just want to have some basic degree of attraction--and I've never had it. I don't mean just physical attraction, either. I've always been this way. I used to think that it was a good thing--I was just more logic driven than other people. I would be able to pick a guy who was good for me, and then I'd "learn to love him," so to speak. I don't know exactly what changed my mind, but lately I've been thinking that something is really screwed up with me. I don't have many friends, and the friends that I do have I'm not at all close with. Is something wrong with me?

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  • Aewe101
    11 years ago

    Maybe your asexual, I thought I was because I had NO attraction to guys my age , but than I realized its because I like older men,

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  • noid
    11 years ago

    Asexual maybe?

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  • diaperwolf21
    11 years ago

    Ive only had 1 crush one a girl that wasn't even into me. I felt crushed when she said she wasnt into relationships like that. This was at my high school prom so I felt even more crushed.

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