Is it normal i've fallen in love with a hooker?

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The regulars will remember my 'is it normal I had a day out with a hooker' well we've spent more time together, she even bought me a birthday present, and last time she left town I cried.
She's not coming back to my town until Jan next year but she said I could call her to chat whenever. I feel so bad knowing that she fucks other guys but it's her business and I want her to be successful...so Is This Normal?

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Based on 9 votes (8 yes)
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  • Anonymous Post Author
    10 years ago

    I hope I get some replies because I'm not trolling, this is a serious post.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    Don't know what sort of a sex life you have Bro but when a girl is DTF I don't rubber up unless she insists, it feels so much better without a condom, so in my world sex with a hooker is safer, I know that sounds messed up to you but that's just how I choose to live my life.

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    • Incomplet
      10 years ago

      Bro, you should've said this much earlier, haha.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    A. she doesn't have any pubic hair, crabs would be pretty obvious.

    B. Any woman could get HPV regardless of the the number of sexual partners she had.

    People need sex, and they can't always get it so they need hookers.

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    • Incomplet
      10 years ago

      A. Crabs doesn't need public hair, they can transmit via clothing, bedsheets or by crawling on the body until they find other forms of hair. For instance, they can get on eyelashes. Public lice is tiny and depending on the number that has passed therefore, symptoms may not be "obvious".

      B. My point was never that women who don't work as hookers couldn't get HPV. Yes, any woman could get HPV, as long as she had sex. However, women who have sex more often are more likely to get it.

      C. Lets not forget condoms aren't one hundred percent effective at much. For instance, HIV can still pass through open cuts, sores, oral sex etc. The pill can't save an individual from that, either.

      I never argued that hookers aren't needed. Don't know why you made the last claim. Debating that is going to get personal and/or political.

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      • handsignals
        10 years ago

        Hookers use condoms during oral.

        I'm not saying it's 100% safe, I've lost count of the hookers I've fucked over the years I all way's play it safe and have never caught anything. I have been tested 3 times, not because of hookers because of girls I had unsafe sex with and I barely new them, personally I feel safer with a hooker.

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        • Incomplet
          10 years ago

          There are no global rules for hookers, sir. What they choose to use differs from location to location. Condoms aren't always reliable, either, and quality control changes from location to location as well. My example was an example and it stands as is.

          You were implying (consciously or not) that safe sex is safe when you said she has the same chance as "anyone else that gets fucked on a Saturday or Friday night". Think about it mathematically. If she has the same chance as someone who engages in intercourse less often, the only possibility is that you deemed it safe.

          If you think hookers are safer than unprotected girls, great. The maths stays as is. EDIT: protected hookers are more likely to have caught something than protected individuals who don't offer services of sexual nature.

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  • Incomplet
    10 years ago

    It's normal that you've fallen for a hooker, sir. But, please let me warn you that the chances of heartbreak aren't flattering for you.

    Her profession alone means that she has a significantly higher chance than most women of having a serious infection. I'm not a doctor, but plenty of those infections have less-than-pleasant consequences.

    Please, please, please keep the former in mind.

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    • handsignals
      10 years ago

      your wrong, she practices safe sex and has no more risk of catching anything than anyone else that gets fucked on a Friday or Saturday night. You probably come from some country were hookers are desperate drug addicts, it's not like that here.

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      • Incomplet
        10 years ago

        "No more risk of catching anything than anyone else that gets fucked on a Friday or Saturday night".

        No, sir, no. Even if she does use both condom and pill, neither of those are going to protect her from diseases that aren't fluid based. Diseases that rely on skin-to-skin (crabs or HPV) contact will still affect her at the same rate regardless of whether or not her client is using a condom.

        So, assuming there is a X chance of contracting HPV or crabs for a "safe" situation and Y is the number of times "anyone else" engages in intercourse and Z is the amount of times she does. As long she offers her services more often than "anyone else", she has a higher theoretical chance.

        XY < XZ

        I rest my case.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    It seems to me that you are being a bit clingy. Never expect someone to change for you. Find someone who you like the way they are and do not want them to change.

    I currently have a friend who recently dated an escort for a week. He wanted her to stop for him but she wanted to continue her job. He is becoming very clingy towards her and to me it seems ridiculous. My friend is being dumb because he cannot accept the facts and deludes himself that she will change. He is seriously irritating her right now and she broke up with him the other day. He is making things so they wont even be able to be friends because he keeps bothering her and she is just annoyed.

    I don't see why someone would even be with someone who they want to change.

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    • handsignals
      10 years ago

      Thanks for the response. I don't know if I want her to change...she has a hard job which has it's rewards, so do I, I'm a nurse. She's not going to be a hooker forever, she has plans for the future...I would like to be part of those plans but that would be a massive step for both of us. Your friend sounds more like he's stalking this girl, I'm not 'that guy' If she really doesn't want to be with me...well I love her so i'll let her go. But I want to tell her how I feel...or should I just walk away because the odds are against me...I don't know.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Maybe wait until she gets her shit together and if you are both still single wait until then. Don't let waiting get in the way of other potential girlfriends though. If she wants to change her life maybe you could help her get a real job.
        It does seem my friend is bordering on stalking that girl. I've actually been driving her around helping her get her life together and I was hanging out with her at the bar last night. My friend showed up to proclaim his love for her once again and begged her to be with him even though he wasn't supporting her the week he was with her and made her sit in his van when he went to work and would sneak her into his house even though his roommates mom knew she was there and didn't care. It's getting quite weird and I'm going to try to have a talk with him later tonight about this but he probably wont listen.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    Is she a government hooker?

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    • handsignals
      10 years ago

      I don't know what that is, she works for her self.

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      • Avant-Garde
        10 years ago

        It is good that she is her own business woman. Does she routinely get STD testing done?

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        • handsignals
          10 years ago

          Yes and she is very safe, she also turns away any men she suspects are drunk or on drugs.

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          • Avant-Garde
            10 years ago

            That is good to hear. I hope things work out well between the two of you.

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      • Avant-Garde
        10 years ago

        It was a reference to a song! :D

        http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o8uMXyxvbKA

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  • White___October
    10 years ago

    Of course it's normal, prostitutes are ordinary people as well. They got a private life next to their job and I understand you have become part of that private life. All those guys that she fucks for money shouldn't bother you, that's just work.

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    • peterr
      10 years ago

      You are right for once. Prostitutes are people too and some are actually quite intelligent and very nice, so if you can get free sex from a pro and kindness what more could you want? You Mom was one, wasn't she?

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      • handsignals
        10 years ago

        No, my mom wasn't but my Great Grandmother was, not joking.

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    I think I recall this story a long time ago. You had the whole IIN community behind your back. Honestly, I think maybe you should tell her how you feel man. I really hope it all goes well.

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    • handsignals
      10 years ago

      The story I told not that long ago was I spent the day with her.

      Now I've spent more time with her and have fallen in love with her, it didn't happen a long time ago it's happening now. She bought me a birthday present, my birthday was on the 11th.

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      • Anime7
        10 years ago

        Oh sorry I was thinking of a different story. I remember yours. Honestly the same advice still goes. Talk to her and tell her how you feel.

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        • handsignals
          10 years ago

          You know I'm going to get rejected though.

          Being a hooker is her business, she can make $500 to a $1000 a day.

          I don't know what's going to hurt more, stop seeing her now or keep on seeing her.

          If I keep seeing her I'm afraid I'll fall even more in love but at least I can be grateful for the time we get together.

          This is fucked I've never been in love before.

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          • Anime7
            10 years ago

            I think then, that perhaps you should get use to the idea of her being with other people. I seriously think you should tell her how you feel. If she rejects you, then at least you gave it a shot. If she doesn't well then some happiness just entered your life.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    How big are her boobs?

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    • charli.m
      10 years ago

      Hi, OP :)

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      • handsignals
        10 years ago

        Dude, yes it's me but I'm not trollin, this shits really happening.

        I went to her room when she wasn't busy, I'd been drinking but she didn't know, then latter I puked, I told her I had been drinking and she said she wouldn't let me drive home. Then a client called so she took my keys and said I would have to sleep in my car because she had to see her client. I fell asleep and woke up sober, it was really late, I went to her room to get my keys but when I got to the window I could hear them fucking. It broke my heart, I sat in my car crying and waiting for him to leave. Then I went and got my keys, she didn't know I had been crying. She told me to text her so she knew I got home safe. What should I do?

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        • charli.m
          10 years ago

          This is such a serious post that you reply to it, obviously as the OP as you did it before it passed mod, and you ask if she has big boobs.

          Yup. Sounds serious to me.

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          • handsignals
            10 years ago

            I'm not normally a serious dude, and I responded because no one else had responded and I wanted to get the ball rolling.

            It is a genuine post, for the first time in my life I'm in love and I think she really likes me. I don't know what to do. I was sexually abused by a woman when I was about 3 or 4 then I walked in on my mom fucking a stranger when I was about 8 so I've always thought love was bullshit and a fuck was just a fuck but now my heart aches for this woman she's more beautiful than any Earth porn I've seen on imgur, she can look deep inside me and understand me and I don't have to say a word, she makes me want to get up off my ass and do stuff...I'm in love.

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            You need a swift slap in your behind. So are we getting married or what?

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