Is it normal i think they are making bets?

Last year I got asked out by a guy in the summer off of Facebook. I said yes and he answered back yay! I asked for his number and he said no way I'm to nervous. I thought that was kinda weird so I told my friend. She texted him and he said he didn't say that his brother did it. That was extremely embarrassing for me and now when ever I get asked out I'm nervous the guys are just joking and trying to trick me. I've been asked out quite a lot and I've said no cause I don't want it to be another prank. Is this normal I'm so worried now?

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72% Normal
Based on 32 votes (23 yes)
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  • joybird

    That's a rotten trick.

    If anyone tries to ask you out by text or fb, tell them to come and see you face to face and you'll think about it.

    Hopefully, if they do, you will see if they are genuine.

    As a feisty female, I always say it takes a guy with great confidence to approach me.
    I wouldn't want any spineless creep anyway, would you?

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  • he wishes, you are too good for him

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  • RinTin

    No one should ask you out over Facebook/text/phone/etc. anyways.

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  • agoodlovejoy

    I do believe there is a brotherhood between the social bruts out there somewhere. Thats why i stand men up sometimes for years. I just think its weird that after 3years one of the guys happened to know one person i actually dated years ago. Although he is wealthy i felt like he just flashed his money to trick women he felt were worthless to him. My thing is he didnt fall for my trick and i didnt fall for his. End the end he was truly angry he didnt get sex. I mean like all women are not stupid. Like do men really believe that a woman (like me) would give herself away JUST because a man possesses something. Thats all HIS stuff. I told him too many times to take me on a ride on his harley, go hiking and horseback riding with me. And one day i was out canoeing. Nooooo he chose to approach me on a broke week. Then judged me from there. Although he says i look like my pictures he felt i was too broke. I ask him then why is your rich ass in the hood picking on broke bitches? Can you not handle the wealthy company? He just beligerently talked about how my kids looked ridiculed me about how many baby daddies do i have and saying he bet we are gonna fall through the floor in my house. So since he is from England he owns 21 houses in Alabama alone. I told him he is just like a damn goat herder. In the end we were laughing so hard at each other.
    But yes it pays to atleast not have sex with anyone from social media. Let him take you on a date and go home like normal....i just FUCK my boyfriend

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  • Sidekickz

    so low

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  • Shackleford96

    Uh, yeah. Getting burned sucks. You need to move on and get over it though.

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