Is it normal i think some people are born meant to be abused?

I disagree, but you kind of lost my serious take on this with the 'Meg from Family Guy' reference.

No. Some people are born into shitty situations though and continue to put themselves in shitty situations because they think its normal because of their bad upbringing.
They can get out of it though. They just have to realize that those people are wronging them.

I don't know.

I wouldn't say so.

With your idea, there's no hope, and there has to be hope or else none of us would make it out.

Abuse is never normal unless both parties are consenting.

Some people get pushed over the edge and push back becoming a force to be reckoned with but others sadly commit suicide.

Shut up meg

I do agree, because my father was seen as a nice guy by everyone who met him, & yet he regularly spanked & shouted at me over nothing, so I grew up thinking that I was bad & worthless. I got bullied as a teenager, & called ugly by kids that were quite repulsive in their appearance, so it wasn`t my looks that were wrong, just my lack of confidence & self esteem. I`ll never forgive my father for putting me on the path to lousy realationships, nor my mother for not standing up to him & defending me.

The reason y ppl like Meg get abused is because they lack confidence. They believe they should get treated that way. It has something to do with how they were raised. Think of a family with two daughters. One daughter comes out beautiful with perfect skin and beautiful exotic eyes and the other comes out normal. Both raised in the same environment and around the same people but the one with the exotic look gets more compliments, gets more friends and gets more respect due to the way she looks. Everytime someone tells her she is beautiful and special it is a reassuring in her mind that she is. She was raised being praised for her beautiful therefore when she is older she knows she is beautiful no matter what comes her way. But the other sister never got those compliments and never got that much attention so when she grows up she is unsure whether she is beautiful or not. She battles most of her life on trying to gain the confidence her sister has. Its the same with abuse, if someone is raised in an abusive home they r most likely to be with a man who is abusive becuz they dont think they deserve better. If someone is raised to never let anyone abuse them then they will surely dodge each abusive guy and find a good man. They know they deserve better and they won't take no for an answer. They put their foot down. I know Meg is a cartoon character but she has been raised a push over and a joke. Her mother is hot and amazing which shows she has the potential to b just as hot as her mother but it is all up to whether she is willing to put her foot down and see the beauty within herself. She can lose weight, grow her hair long and start gaining confidence but she is so blinded by her reality that she dare to dream for a better life.