Is it normal i think relationships are funny?

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Well, recently as I have been getting older I like to observe more about relationships and how people interact in them. Is it normal to notice the women that are in them tend to be much happier then the men that are in them? Why is that? Its not totally cut and dry, but it seems that on an overall basis women tend to be happier. Its almost like they seem to be kids again, sure they arent totally kids, but if anything goes wrong they get their husband to make it all better, and then go on their merry way. Then conversely, single men seem to be if not happier, then certainly less stressed, then married men and single women. Why is that?

Also is it normal to think that women who get laid alot, taken care of sexually so to say tend to be much more pleasant to their partners, why is that? Its just sex, is it that important?

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  • NoraBaker
    11 years ago

    As the old saying goes, "A cock a day keeps the milkman away". Gotta watch out for the missus' mental health and happiness. It's a cycle: If she's constantly pleasured, she'll always be eager to please in order to keep being pleasured.

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  • Francophile22
    11 years ago

    A point of contention: Single men who CHOOSE to be single are happier; those without game and single against their desires are not happier, they are miserable.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I agree 100% they those men are miserable, but only because they lack perspective. They bought into the whole bullshit ideology that in society men who get married/kids are happier, so they feel you have to do it.

      Personally I dont have any game, BUT I also am very content with being single.

      I dont see any problem at all with living my life for me, not some vacuous wife, and indulgent children.

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  • fartonmyface
    11 years ago

    I disagree with this post in so many ways.

    It seems that the kind of relationships you're making generalizations about are bad or lopsided relationships. Good relationships make both people happy and give both parties someone to lean on. That's the whole point.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    I guess you can say, I am a lot like that.

    I can usually handle problems and I am very independent, but I am grateful to have my husband around to do things that I would really rather not do. The other day, my rabbit died and I had to have my husband be the one to box him up and bury him because I just couldn't do it. He knew that I was a very sensitive person in that respect when he married me. I can handle difficult financial situations and stressful times but dead animals is something that I can not do.

    However, I don't think that depending on your partner to do for you makes you a child. If you can't depend on your partner then you are in the wrong relationship and to that respect, a lot of women depend on men to handle things that they may not be strong enough to do. Just as well, a lot of men depend on women to do for them, they are just not so open about it.

    Usually, the men that I know in relationships are very satisfied and the women are the ones that are difficult to satisfy so maybe it is just from the walk of life that I am coming from, but most of the men that I know are genuinely happy with where they are at.

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