Is it normal i think of him every day

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I came back in contact with an old ex. I always hoped we would find our way back to each other somehow because I always really liked him. When we did, he told me he had two children. I don't date guys with kids so I was devastated. I had no intention of pursuing anything romantic with him after hearing this. However, he told me he really needed a friend that he could confide in and decided to be that. We started hanging out a lot and began acting like a couple. I completely disregarded all my dating rules for him. I met his 2 year old son and we bonded instantly. I introduced him and his son to my family on my birthday and my family welcomed them with open arms. It was great. They stayed at my apartment, I would cook for them , we hung out almost everyday. I felt like we were a family.

About a month later, he disappeared out of my life to run back to his ex. I was heartbroken. I didn't hear from him in a long time now he randomly calls me once every couple months to see how I'm doing and complain about how much he hates his life. I want to tell him not to call me anymore because even though he hurt me I always feel like we will pick up where we left off...I miss him and his son every day and my apartment is so lonely without them around. Shouldn't I already be over him and this situation?? We only saw each other for about a month.

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  • Hoppy2142
    11 years ago

    i lent loves someon else, srry ipod quick spelling...

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  • Hoppy2142
    11 years ago

    to think about a guy like that everyday, no, he has children, that means he lives someone else more than you, he leaves you saying, it was all a game, i won, by the way im a male and if i did that and still had a girl like you love me, i would run to you because in the time we live in, its all a joke to soceity, as far as their concerned it will tell you dating is only a game never to get you anywhere. But the way i see it, if you are mature its all different but as far as ive been high school is a joke. Im just giving it to you straight, not meant to hurt you just saying my thoughts, some you may heed others not, i just put this out here, i am 16

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  • melbournegirl
    11 years ago

    There is no set time that it takes to move on from a relationship, it will happen, you just have to give it time.

    Don't worry that because you're still not over him that you're unusual or anything, it sometimes takes a long time to move past one's "what if" person.

    Go out with girlfriends and try to enjoy yourself, Don't stress about how often you think about him, just ttry to be in the moment as much as you can.

    I hope all works out for you hun.

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