Is it normal i think of death in depth and make myself feel terrible

I somtimes will think about how death is inescapable and want to cry and im not a crier- im a guy who wont cry for a lot of stuff. I try to comfort myself beacause i know it will probably feel like falling asleep. But its not the dieing part so much as departing from this world forever. This doesnt happen excessively but it reeeeealy bothers me because its like im trapped in a room with the walls slowly closeing in on me and i know one day they will come and crush me. Thats the part that makes me so angry and full of sorrow. I know that i should stop thinking about it but once i start its hard to stop. (i mean when you KNOW it will happen its hard to not think of it) Before you ask- i did try religion but i personally felt it was just a crock of shit. Just my opinion and really would apreciate you wouldnt post somthing about religion on here.

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  • sillymerchantgirl

    we're all in this together mon amie

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  • FuzzaMuzza7

    I think the bible is a bunch of lies, I believe that when I die I will become my own god and create my own universe from scratch, reincarnation seems reasonable too, just think of something comforting that'll happen after death and if you make yourself believe it, it may just be true

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  • I'm excited for death. That sounds dysfunctional, I mean it's not like I'm suicidal or anything but I'm excited to find out what will happen. I don't see death as a bad thing, I see it as a change. I love my life on this world, but I'm glad I'm gonna die eventually.

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  • emilydoll

    I have a theory that well always be alive. I mean hasn't this all happened before? You're not alone, don't worry about it. You won't even notice.

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  • sleepingbeauty

    Death means that you have done what you were supposed to do. Religious beliefs help many people, I'm not sure what I believe in. I do know that I think about my own death a lot, I always have done and I am not afraid of it, it is part of the complete cycle.

    I'm not saying you should be happy and positive about dying, but you should move towards the inevitability of it and live every day the best you can and enjoy what you do have.

    If you spend all your time being negative, you will miss out on the small pleasures in life and that is the most sad. As the saying goes: "life is too short", if you have a girl, love her and spend time with her, find a job you enjoy, get chores done quickly and do the things you want to do, plan some fun things.

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  • Nolee

    At least you can think about it, I won't even let myself think of it. I know everyone has to die someday but I hate the thought of it. Even though I'm very religious, it scares me so much.

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  • janetconnie

    I think your just going through a phase. You should really talk to your close friends about it.

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  • CrapGeezer

    Im not so sure about crying but death does get me depressed as well

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  • zchristian

    the one thing in life you cant survive is life whitout death there is no life

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  • smciver2

    Some things in life are inevitable. Death is one of them. Enjoy ur life and have fun and live it to the fullest. If u don't u will regret it wen ur old

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  • ieatrocksdirt

    while this is scary to think about it is a fact. every one you know including yourself will die someday.... that is why you must make the best of this life. how would you feel lying on your deathbed thinking back and find that all you ever thought about was that moment.... what a waste right? the vast majority of life is life, and at the very end for probly only a milisecond is death.

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  • imgx64

    I'm kinda the opposite. I do think of death a lot, but I don't feel bad about it. I mean, everyone will die eventually, so why not be comfortable with it?

    But then, I'm religious, but you don't want to discuss it so I'll stop here.

    As for being 'normal,' I guess it is. Lots of people get depressed at one point of their lives.

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  • sheyne8203

    I felt the same way before I became a Christian, but the main thing was it gave me inspriation. If you can find something inspirational for yourself that gives you hope maybe the dark feelings won't develop as often. I'm sorry you feel that way because it is a scary feeling. You are normal though and I wish you luck.

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  • Danila

    Hey friend !!! if you could see there s a life after death for yourself? would you feel better?
    Im not talking about religion but science.What are we made of? we are made of tons and tons atoms vibrating,particles, matter is energy condensed, our inteligent principle which vibrates in a much higher frequency ,just use this meat animal body to manifest in this dimension, when we sleep our consciosness goes out of our body.Have you ever dreamed of falling and just felt being pulled back to a body instantly? everybody goes out of theirs bodys when they sleep but feel remenber, if you dont believe, why dont you just try and take conclusions for yourself http://www.iacworld.org/englishself, also you can learn technics of meditation on the web, is pretty simple the key is just dont losing your consciosness ,awareness while falling sleep, you just need sef-suggestioninging yourself that you want to see for yourself that you want to find out ,do this before sleeping, our consciosness is not this meat body my friend

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