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I think I might be gay. I saw someone of the same sex and they were absolutely stunning. It was weird that I found them so attractive. I never notice things like this. Did I just think they were good looking? or does it mean im gay?
Dude I don't think you're gay based on that. I think beauty can be recognized in either and by either sex. I know Angel from Buffy is a good looking guy, it doesn't make me gay. But if I thought ooo I wonder what his cock looks like, then yea I'd be leaning in that direction.
True, just because you think a guy looks good doesn't mean you're gay. It's kind of like common respect when a guy thinks another guy looks good, examples being like buying a tux and another guy saying it looks good on you or working out and some guy saying nice eight pack, it's all common respect between guys. Now like how "Short4Words" said, if you are thinking about the other guy's cock, that's a completely different scenario which gives hints you may be gay.
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Stop worrying. If you are physically attracted to the opposite sex but not the same sex, you're straight. If you are physically attracted to the same sex but not the opposite sex, you're gay. If you are physically attracted to both sexes, you're bisexual (or possibly pansexual).
In your case, you're probably not straight (in the absolute sense). Whether or not you are gay depends on whether or not your attraction is exclusively to the same sex.
But really it's a good idea not to jump to conclusions. There's no rush to label yourself, and sexuality can be somewhat fluid. Just see what happens - DON'T base your sexual orientation on this single experience.
By the way, I'm assuming by "found them so attractive" you don't simply mean you recognised their beauty, but that you found them sexually or romantically attractive. You can appreciate someone's beauty without being sexually or romantically interested in them - that wouldn't be evidence of homosexuality.
No definitely not. That doesn't make you gay. I've had moments like that too, I think most people have. Even if you happen to get excited sexually over someone of the same sex, it doesn't necessarily mean your gay unless you feel a major desire to act on it and/or aren't too attracted to women
If this happens to you only once your'e not gay.Don't label yourself that quickly ..
No chill out your not gay. I look at other women and think they are sexy and stuff all the time but I know im not gay. Its ok to see beauty and sexyness in the same sex
Labels don't define people. People define labels.
What does "gay" mean to you? Some people think it's as simple as having sexual interests with people of the same sex, but there are infinite possibilities in sexuality.
There are some men that have sex with men, but say they only fall in love with women. They don't all identify as gay. Some identify as "straight" or "MSM" (men who have sex with men- dividing love and sex into completely separate levels of their own sexuality).
There are people like myself, who identify as "gay", that have also come across one or two women I had sexual attractions towards. But I choose not to pursue those interests because I don't see myself falling in love with these women.
Sexuality is a person by person experience. There may be millions of women on the planet that you desire to have sex with. But maybe you also have that same desire for one man, and choose to pursue him over any of the millions of women.
Our desires are never our own conscious choice, but our behavior and what labels we choose to (or not to) identify as are our choice. Sometimes labels help us find our identity, and sometimes that only limit us. But ultimately, there isn't anything wrong with having attractions towards another person- whether male, female, intersex, or other. It's all perfectly normal.
Why don't you go read the bible! It is also wrong to lie, cheat on your spouse and divorce! There is plenty of that in this world so i think if you think that is the only "wrong" you need to go through it again. Im christian and Im in love with women more than Men. We are all gods children and he loves us all equally! Remember that!
People are so fucking paranoid about being gay. Ok, here's the story, once I was drunk out of my mind and I decided to look for some really fucked up porno just for shock value. I started to think about what the most messed up shit I could watch would be that wouldn't get me in trouble. I decided on gay porn. At first, I was repulsed, completely. However, I decided to watch for a minute and I got a bit excited by it not because it was two guys but just the fact that it was sex excited me. The overall sexual energy really turned me on and I started jerking off and jizzed. Then I watched it a few more times just because and still got off on it. I have no interest in men, I have just come to the conclusion (no pun intended) that sex turns us on even if involves two people of the same sex. I do not wish to be with another man sexually, therefore viewing gay pornography did not turn me "gay"
Ignore the smartass comments. Recognizing someone's attractiveness doesn't make you gay. Someone mentioned Gerard Butler. Another is Russell Crowe, and he actually comes across as a GUY, not some sniveling Hollywood version of a "man." Just 'cause I recognize certain qualities doesn't make me gay.
I'm a straight guy, straight as they come. And you know what, Gerard Butler is a good looking dude. I'm not gay, I wouldn't even say I'm attracted to his body, but he does have a nice body. I would love to look like him.
Men are noticed.as Handsome Women As Beutiful or Hotin a guys view if you thought he was a Handsome man then your not gay but if you seen him and thought.you would like to have sex with him then probley you are gay.
Maybe you're bi!
You just need to take it slow. You'll know for sure as time goes on. Soon you will experience things and your doubt will be resolved.
I don't think you really are gay until you find sex with the same gender satisfying.
Next time you see him ask him for some dick in yo ass/mouth.If it tastes/feels good to you,yup yo'is a FAG!