Is it normal i think i'm in love with one of my close friends?

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we've been friends for 3 years i guess.. but since last year we started to hangout very frequently with few other friends.. lately, my feelings are stronger and i think i love him more than just friends,unfortunately he already has a gf. but he always talk sweet things to me in flirty and playful way.. i just hate that cuz that makes me love him even more.. i dont want to ruin our friendship.. please, what should i do to avoid this stupid feelings??

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  • flawdagirl
    9 years ago

    don't ruin your friendship with him because of your hormones and primal instincts.

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  • spankrocket
    8 years ago

    If you truly like your friend, then just be happy for him, don't ruin a relationship out of passion, I know because, I was friends with a girl a few years ago in school/college, we would chat alot at break time,

    but after a couple of weeks,we met for a few days,it was nice but sadly it it didn't work out. she no longer spoke to me,she would ignore me in the corridor even if I said hi , which felt strange and now we haven't spoken in years!

    this girl would have been the perfect gf, we had the same interests,hobbies and we could talk for hours and hours about anything.

    if we had hadn't met and just stayed friends as normal, we would have remained good friends but that that, so my advice just remain friends with this guy, you might not think it now but you will be so much happier that he will be your friend.

    hope this helps..

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Take a break from him. Spend less time together and try to make some new friends.

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