Is it normal i think i'll never get a chance to date the man i like?

A guy I've liked for a while was single for a few months I was trying to figure out how to tell him my feelings but it was too late when I was just ready to say something he posted in a relationship on Facebook. He's now been with her 4 months...

Is it hopeless now? He'll probably marry her and have kids and I ruined my chances right

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  • Hello_Me_Again

    When you are thinking about being in a relationship make sure you say it before they get taken, otherwise you will get heartbroken. I would say try to move on and find someone else, but this person may break up, not all relationships last.

    Don't let him dictate your life, that leads to only bad things.

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  • charli.m

    I was in a similar situation years ago. I thought I'd never meet anyone as perfect as him. Turns out, I was already talking to someone far better, who was also into me. Now we've been together for five years. I've fallen out of touch with the guy I thought was perfect. But I could not be happier with anyone else.

    It hurts when you realise you've missed your chance, but life goes on and gets better in time.

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  • MasterChives

    Ah screw it, go get him!

    Im not one for home wreaking.. Ok im a little for home wreaking.

    If you feel love for this dude. Tell him. Hey even if he is with someone, the truth is the truth.

    Before the judgements come I need to say, im not saying steal him away or anything like that but telling someone how you feel and accepting your fate will (in the long run) feel a lot better than screwing yourself over.

    Wise man once said courage will make happy many times.

    Wise man no English good also.

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    • Thanks, makes sense actually

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  • lordofopinions

    Next time you find someone that you really like open your mouth and tell them before they run off with someone else.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Then just get over it, because there are plenty of fish in the sea.

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