Is it normal i think i am brainwashed to only like white women?

i am a 24 year old black man and i have only been attracted to white women since 17. it wasn't always like this. i use to be attracted to all races of women,but i was attracted to black and white women the most. but all of a sudden i only became attracted to white women,and it has been that way since i was a teen. no matter how attractive a woman of another race is,they really don't do anything for me. i mean,i love white women but i don't think that's good thing to think like that,because i could be missing out dating someone of another race that has a great personality instead of only limiting myself to white women. i a not trolling when i ask this. do you think it's possible that because society puts in the media that white is right,that i could be brainwashed to only be attracted to white women?

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  • RainbowDischarge

    As an asian female living in the US, I am only attracted to white men. Even more specifically blonde blue eyed. It has always been like this. My first crush in elementary was blonde, as was my first boyfriend and my current boyfriend. Although, he is half Cuban, he looks very German. Btw, I think its quite sexy he is half latino but not attracted to Latino features. Weird? I think I'm like this because I'm a bit white washed and went to a mostly white school all my life. Both my sisters are also dating Caucasians. I still recognize a good looking person even if they are not white. Just not my type. I don't see a problem in it since I don't love my man because of his race, I love him for who he is. He just happens to be sexy as fuck.

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  • I'm half Asian and half white and usually all girls go bananas for me :)

    Even girls that say "You're not my 'type' but you're so cute/sexy I'll try it." haha.

    While I can recognize sexy beautiful girls of all races my preference has always been white girls ever since I was born.

    Why?

    It's not brainwashing, it's a numbers game. There are mostly white girls around me (here in the US) so naturally I'll gravitate towards the cuter ones and there's more cute ones to see than cuties of other races. At least where I go.

    Have I seen sexy black girls, latino girls, asian girls?
    Of course but there's so few of them compared to sexy white girls here.

    Besides that it's my experience. I didn't grow up with black girls in my neighborhood or latinos, or asians.
    Only white girls so of course my first sexual experiences at school and with local girls were with white girls.

    So naturally I've dated more hot white girls than anything else.

    There's no brain washing going on it's a numbers game.

    If you grew up and lived in Africa you'd probably have a preference for sexy black girls because that's probably what is mostly of.

    If you were in Asia and grew up in Asia you'd like hot sexy Asian girls most because that's what there mostly is.

    I think it's more about social impact and personal experience than brainwashing.

    Once you have sex with someone your body get's experienced knowing that, 'that type' feels good and you begin to naturally seek out 'that type' of girl.

    For example, when younger I never even dated average or a little bit chubby girls because they absolutely never turned me on. Then after screwing many hot girls and dating only hotties and not really being satisfied I decided to try dating average looking girls and even one chubby girl to see if they were better people and I would be happier with them.

    Ever since then my thoughts and body realize average girls and even chubby girls can be great sexually and sometimes I find myself getting turned on by them.

    But to answer the question, no. Dating average girls was not 'better' nor was the chubby one. It was actually much worse because I wasn't sexually stimulated enough. I'd wake up in bed and look over at her and realize I'm not really that attracted to her then I'd start getting frustrated with myself and would end it.

    And no, they aren't less drama or any better people.

    In fact wow:
    REALIZATION:
    The probably 3 girls in my life that I'm pretty sure cheated on me (1 for sure) were the 2 average girls and the 1 chubby girl, WTF?! That's crazy.

    I'm also remembering that the average / chubby girls seemed to accuse me of cheating because they know I'm hot and other girls roll up on me. They were probably very insecure. Hmmm.

    You like who you like.

    It's normal.

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  • Thexoutcast

    I'm a black female and I have literally never been attracted to a man that was fully black. I do believe it comes from being white washed. I've been taught to find European features more attractive. So that could definitely be the case.

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  • peterr

    I only like white women and I am a white man. Is that normal? Who knows?

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  • MysticLane

    No you're not brainwashed into being attracted to certain races of people, it just has to do with your hormones. I'm white and have never been attracted to black men, but I have been attracted to asians and indians and other races besides white. I have nothing against black people either, just have never been attracted to them. That's like asking if straight people are brainwashed into being straight because society says thats normal. come on now.

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  • wawat

    I've been attracted to white girls all my life...I don't know where it came from, given that everyone in my family is black.

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  • MidnightKitten

    Crap... I never thought of it that way.. maybe we are being brainwashed. My boyfriend is also white & has green eyes. I think he's so cute and smart, I kinda felt ashamed when I liked him though. lol I always told myself I wouldn't get with a Caucasian, not that I'm racist, I just hated how everyone in my school made fun of darker skinned black kids or mexican kids who looked "too mexican." It bugged the crap out of me and everyone wanted to straighten their hair.. Oh yea and I'm mexican. But I do love my boyfriend. I just couldn't resist him. x(

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  • Everywhere you look, it's clear that White females are basically pimped out, so to speak, by the powers that be.

    I'm of the opinion that you should value your own racial group - whichever that may be - above all others. This is not hate; this is natural.

    I'm a White person with strong racialist views and personally I think that within the Black community we should do what we can to promote the old notion that "Black is beautiful." After all, you can't ever become White, so why on earth would you ever consider that aspiration?

    If Nature made you Black, be Black.

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    • NotStrangeBird

      Please explain all those white folks getting a tan on the beach in the summertime.

      After all, you can't ever become black, so why on earth would you ever consider that aspiration?

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      • Exactly.

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        • NotStrangeBird

          You're agreeing with me?

          How embarrassing. You have some interesting ideas, that's for sure. If you were local I'd buy you lunch just to hear your thoughts.

          Then again, I think it would end badly.

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          • I can't decide whether to up-vote or down-vote this post.

            Well, I suppose I'll just give you the benefit of the doubt and say "thanks."

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