Is it normal i think everyone cheats?

Before u say , NO I'm not "mad" or "jealous" or anything along those lines.

But speaking from the perspective of a male who does not trust ANY of the partners I've had....don't you think EVERY girl would cheat if the situation were good enough?

I've been cheated on when I was very young(schooldays - maybe more times??), but women are easily swayed "picked up" as we see on Youtube these days. I dunno, I just think if the other guy were equally as good as you but with more money and better sex there no way a woman would resist that. Why would they??

Its the cold hearted reality and once you've accepted it, but IT's ALSO kinda sad to think of all the people who trust some1 and get sliced like a damn fruit ninja??

Is it normal to think all women are cheaters if given a good option?

And dont you think its kinda FUCKED UP thats the way it is - people just want to get gold coins and 1UP like life is fucking Mario Bros. Its a damn shame

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  • Maybe your relationships just weren't that good.
    I don't think every girl will do that, but some will.
    Some people just care about money and looks.
    And some will like someone just for who they are.
    Nobody is better or worse, just different.

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    • TrustMeImLying

      IIN I read this comment as a poem or song lyric? Your musicianness is leaking into your comments, monsieur

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    • Its no longer even an I think for me lool....it used to be before Youtube flipped the dating script.........now its like.......
      I BELIEVE WHOLE HEARTEDLY - every woman is a cheater w/time + the right person.........

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  • joolia03

    I guess you just dated trash. Most girls might be a little more vulnerable but they will take their relationships into consideration. I think the worst would be she would leave her bf for another guy but at least she left him first than juggling both. Not saying thats better but I don't think its in a girl to juggle more than one relationship. So like I said, maybe your past gfs were just trash.

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  • Blue_Velvet

    Most men and women cheat but there's a few loyal ones out there.

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    • Where they at tho?

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  • derpyderp

    Maybe it's normal to THINK that.
    But it doesn't make it true...

    I've personally never cheated & I never would. Not at all into casual sex for a start, despite having had opportunities, & if I'm in a relationship with someone that means I care about them & have too much respect for them to be unfaithful.

    Now I'm seeing someone so fucking fantastic, & compatible with me in every single way, that I can't imagine ever finding someone I fit with better so why would I go elsewhere?

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    • I reckon your fantasy girl/guy could make you soo relaxed around them - you could forget your GF/BF for two hours, while you have sex? I've witnessed girls cheating they are RARELY thinking/conscious about the partner when they do it.

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      • derpyderp

        I'm with my fantasy girl & there is noone who could make me forget her.

        I also mentioned that even when single I'm not into casual sex. Not everyone is a cheater & despite the chip on your shoulder you'll have to eventually believe they or be a lonely cunt...

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  • ShadowSkarmory

    No. Not everyone cheats. Only scum cheat. Alot of people are actually loyal to those they marry/date. And for a few others, they only have one love their whole life time.

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  • Nokiot9

    I think anyone, ANYONE male or female would cheat if put in the right/wrong circumstances. Enough drugs/drink, the right person, the right moves and words can sway anyone. The two times I've cheated in my life I was completely honest about. It's one thing to cheat, but it's a totally different stack of shit when it comes to creeping and being dishonest. Lying just makes it so much worse and more difficult to deal with when you eventually have to.

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  • the_berry_taco

    I've never cheated, but all the men I've been with have. It would be easy for me to say "all men suck," "all men are worthless," "all men cheat!" but I don't, because I know it's not true. I know this of most of my other female friends, too.

    I'm not sure what you mean about Youtube. If you're talking about the undercover "stings" where people are sending someone to seduce their girlfriend to see if she'll cheat, those things are rigged. Some of them are flat out faked. The ones who post the real ones aren't posting the ones where their partners remain faithful. Why? Because it won't attract viewers or good ratings. It's like the news only reporting on bad things, because misery sells.

    Real love does exist. I've gotten to that point in my relationship where I can safely say I will never cheat, but that doesn't mean situations and opportunities never happened earlier. Yes, the lust is real, and yes, I've been tempted, but of those times I have immediately severed all connections with the person I have any feelings for, and sat down with my husband and discuss it with him. It's the same thing for him. Complete honestly and constant compromise is what will make a relationship. It brings you so much closer and makes your relationship stronger. That's when you'll stop wanting anyone else. Sure, you'll notice someone is hot, but it won't really matter. You and she won't even care.

    But, my favorite celeb crushes? Absolutely not, lol. Alan Rickman and David Bowie have finally hit that age where that would be impossible for me. XD Most of my other crushes are people that my husband are really into, too. I would feel HELLA guilty even just meeting them without him, much less SLEEPING with them!

    You asked someone else where to find these girls, and TBH they're all around you. Try not to get into anything with expectations, good or bad. And CERTAINLY don't project your perceptions of your exes/horror story ladies onto her. Hang out somewhere that interests you. Try a game store, or an internet cafe (I see you like Mario!). Try to start a conversation by gently mentioning something you've read or know about the game she's holding, or compliment her gameplay and ask about her strategy. If she's not interested, though, just leave her be. It's not your fault if she's not interested, just as it's not yours when someone doesn't interest you. I promise if you can remain hopeful, sweet, and cheerful, you will find someone. And they will treat you like you always wanted.

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  • Fleetline

    I have never cheated but my ex did. She is miserable no, married to an abusive drunk. I am in a long distance relationship. The thing is I trust her. She trusts me. We aren't attracted to anyone else. If I didn't believe in someone, I would be lost. My parents were married 55 years and adored each other. My grandparents had 61 years. Yes, real love exists. You have to look for it. When you find it its the most precious thing there is.

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  • electricblueoceans

    Some do cheat, but not all. I know I was with this one guy and I liked another, but I didn't want to hurt the feelings of the other. It turns out the guy I liked was a jerk, and the one I was with was the good one.

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    • You deffo sound like girls I've SEEEN cheating. Rarely are girls thinking about the OTHER GUY while they are with the other. If Brad Pitt had you relaxed around him and you got aroused - I'm willing to bet my life savings(-£7000 uni debt) you would cheat without even thinking about the other guy........

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      • electricblueoceans

        I wouldn't. It's just not something I do. Maybe you shouldn't base all women on the ones that have cheated. I had to break up with him, because I know that it's wrong to lead someone on. I actually do care. I was with someone just because I was alone for what felt like forever. I was always bullied and this guy started giving my his time and he made me happy, but I just didn't feel that way.

        You're also talking about cheating in sex way and not the feelings way. That isn't fair because I've never had sex. I don't like this Brad you speak of either.

        You don't and will never know me, and I'm happy for that.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Not everyone cheats. I certainly wouldn't cheat on someone that I was with because, I am very loyal and I have morals.

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    • honestly, that sound like completee BS
      I watched a video on this i'm not just tryna insult you. EVERYONE who says they wouldnt cheat claims to have morals and values.
      But lust is real - w/time + the right person....would you trust YOURSELF not to cheat?

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      • Avant-Garde

        I'm asexual and religious. I don't feel lust and I have no intention of pursuing it.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I'm not into cheating; cheating's for shanks.

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    • What attractive celeb crush do you have?
      Do you think you he would not convince you to cheat on your partner for one night?
      Do you think he couldnt get you to follow him to his hotel/room??
      I honestly dont trust any woman. I feel they behave as they think they should, ie on this site - we must appear to be honest and loyal - so you'll say you wont. But in the reality situation would you trust YOURSELF to not cheat?

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