Is it normal i think boys/men are complete jerks?

Sadly it's those complete jerks that somehow win the girls over, and causes us nice guys to get over looked. Girls don't like nice guys because we're not "interesting" enough or we're too good of a friend. Complete bullshit in my opinion, girls for some reason just prefer being with an asshole rather than a nice guy. Trust me us good loving men are out there.

Stonecutter93 is correct. It's also a sad fact, because nice guys DO get over looked all the time, that they become assholes to get the girls.

Okay. As a man. I can tell you that as a species, we are all pretty damn disgusting, bigheaded, sexist, and all around jerks. Hell. Even I hate men. We're hairy, smelly, ignorant and rude. Not that women are much better. You're all huffy, moany and bitchy. No offense. I know I'm generalising here. I know not everyone's the same. But yes. You're right in saying the man you're looking for is like finding in the desert. But thats the same for most people. If you are looking for the person that's right for you, then it's gonna take a while to find someone that fits your specifications. Unless you're one of those slutty whores that just sleeps with any old sleazebag.

Not so much someone's gender that makes them a jerk, more so their chosen lifestyle and identity. Both men and women act like jerks, it's just that us who have and exercise some sense of morality are drastically outnumbered.

Jerks get the girl, but jerks often don't keep the girl. There's almost a biological imperative for women to be massively attracted to arrogant men for the purposes of breeding, but then select an entirely different type of man to bring up their children and be their partner for life. It happens in lots of primate societies, not just human.

It's not women being illogical or deceitful. It's evolution at work. And it actually makes some twisted kind of sense. The ideal man is one who appears confident and almost knocks a woman off her feet but then slowly shows his real, sensitive and nurturing side. Men being uncaring, arrogant players is also evolution at work. And sadly, makes the same twisted kind of sense. Get as many women pregnant as possible and make some other sucker pay for and love your children.

We are what we are. Both men and women. No point moaning about it. Better to try and understand it and then see what we want in light of that understanding.

Lool u shud leave a comment on my posts if u think men are jerks, I think the exact same of women in western society.
Horny - Lack-self-understanding - Treat men like sexual objects. hahhahah you think guys are jerks because YOUUU are ALLL attracted to dominant asshole qualities. Its kinda ironic actually :)

Women are every bit as bad and love to act like their shit don't stink.

Hate that women are talked about as sexual objects huh. Wonder how you dress and act

The truth is that most "good" men are suppressed by our culture in that anything virtuous instantly becomes "different" or "weird" since our culture supports an abusive, consumptive and competitive attitude towards life. As humans, we tend to believe things before they become a reality. Case in point, if a man is portrayed as good when he is better than women and better than others in general and if these beliefs are promoted in the media, the average male will begin to believe such things without criticism or question. I almost did until I realized that I was oppressed by conformity to our culture. If men learn to accept the fact that our culture is harmful in this state, then maybe they can change to become the person they would like to be, rather than what our "culture" promotes.

you should think about maybe dating a women. it may be just what you're looking for!

ahaaaa.. yup most of them, absolutly agree with u! although not at all but, we just have to be carefull to choose.

I make an effort not to be a jerk. But Id like to think that I am a naturally pleasant person anyway.

It hasn't really helped me as far as girls are concerned (I'm 18 and never had a girlfriend).

Thanks for stereotyping me. Oh well, I'm used to it now.

Also. Stonecutter93 speaks the truth.