Is it normal i tell people i’m a virgin due to being christian?

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I’m 25 and never been in a relationship due to having Asperger’s, but I tell people who ask that I’m waiting until marriage so I don’t look pathetic. It’s not a lie, because I go to church and try to live according to my faith.

Dating has just been excruciatingly hard because I don’t know how to flirt or banter with someone I like. I just tell someone that I like them and would like to go on a date

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RoseIsabella

4 years ago

It's not normal to post the same question over, and over. I'm sorry, but I don't have the time, or energy to waste answering the same question over, and over with the same level of of sincerity, and earnest concern.

I'm sorry you didn't get the answers you wanted, but when you ask the same question over, and over people will progressively take you less, and less seriously. People who had initially responded to your query with genuine interest, and concern will simply cease to care.

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litelander8

4 years ago

This, again!

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- d0esnormalmatter
  
  4 years ago
  
  Is this three or four times this has been posted by this mouth breather? Its gotta be at least 3.
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  I’m not gonna apologize for being in Texas. It’s more acceptable to cite religion for anything here than in a garbage state like California.
  
  I didn’t know I’m dealing with Pelosi’s minions here on IIN.
  
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  - litelander8
    
    4 years ago
    
    What any of that have to do with the OP? 😂
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Because people are more sexually liberal in places like California and on this site. This proves that virgins get mocked far more on here than conservative areas.
      
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      - charli.m
        
        4 years ago | pl
        
        She wasn't mocking, she was saying you've posted this several times before. If you don't like the answers, quit posting it.
        
        Who gives a fuck if you're a virgin or not? Other than you and your future partner(s), it's no one else's business, and wuite frankly, if your future partner's judge you for it, they're cunts and you shouldn't fuck.
        
        Aside from that, statistically, it's normal for ASD people to have difficulty in dating, as it's a social exploit. There's no shame in that, but if you feel like you need to say it's because of religion, there's no shame in that either.
        
        No one is owed an explanation of any sexual life unless they are directly involved.
        
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      - litelander8
        
        4 years ago
        
        Literally nothing was proved. You have no point.
        
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  - DIO
    
    4 years ago
    
    You should apologize for being a stupid fucking cunt.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      The only retards are those who voted for Corbyn.
      
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FromTheSouthWeirdMan

4 years ago

Your best bet is to find another partner that has social anxiety or asbergers too. Maybe online dating would be easier to find those ppl.

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Iszzy123

4 years ago

Being rich helps

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Mammal-lover

4 years ago

One of my coworkers is a virgin, shes a latter day saint. If you beilive in being chaste over your religion go for it. I think its stupid myself but if that's what you want in life anx it makes you happy then do it dont be ashamed be proud

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[Old Memory]

4 years ago

Out of the blue, no. In a conversation about said topic, yes.

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Clunk42

4 years ago

If you say you're waiting until marriage when you're not, that's also a lie.

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- d0esnormalmatter
  
  4 years ago
  
  Yes he needs to say "I'm lame and too lazy and insecure to get women", instead.
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    4 years ago
    
    Why should I say that when it would blow my chances of finding love?
    
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    - d0esnormalmatter
      
      4 years ago
      
      Don't tell that to women when you date them, tell that to everyone else such as your family or friends when they ask where the chicks at.
      
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      - iEatZombies_
        
        4 years ago
        
        Yep. Being honest might get someone to help him find a lady, as well.
        
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        d0esnormalmatter
        
        4 years ago
        
        Yes 100%
        
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CDmale4fem

4 years ago

I should also have said that your sexual virginity or lack of is really no one else's business unless you want to tell them that to let them have the idea that you are a good girl. But I'm sure you are a good girl no matter what others think.

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DIO

4 years ago

OMG. This retarded guy again? Is there a way to ban him for life?

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- LloydAsher
  
  4 years ago
  
  Complain harder maybe the IIN will listen.
  
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  - DIO
    
    4 years ago
    
    At least I'm doing something while you're here writing an useless comment.
    
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